You HAVE TO FORGIVE PEOPLE WHEN YOU FEEL THEY HAVE WRONGED YOU NOT FOR THEM BUT FOR YOU.
Thats good: very profound.
I have also had hardships and heartbreaks in bands.. whenever you get a bunch of creative, talented individuals together, there's bound to be friction. It'll either work or it wont- but right off the bat, sometimes (as with a love affair ) you just dont know until you give it time. I dont think anybody could immediately asess (sp?) a particular situation and be able to see into the future what the relationships of all of the musicians will be down the line, just my .02 cents.
BTW- I was a red 'x' too and had to start my acct all over again, but I think I heard that there's a simpler solution..
I was going to make a joke like "I was a red "x" once but then I had to quit".. or something./ lol ..
Nice paragraph, though J, Really.