yod wrote:No one hates religious hypocrites more than me...but you know what? At some level all humans are hypocrites. We say one thing but do another.
Planetguy wrote:true enough...we all are hypocrites at some time on one level or another. hopefully it's not over the "big stuff".
A hypocrite is a hypocrite, and it's one thing I won't stand for.
Someone may not like my reasoning, why I make an exception for "X".
But, I strive for consistency, nonetheless.
yod wrote:Anyone can play a G note on a bass, but that doesn't make them a bass player. Even among those who can play bass well, it doesn't necessarily make them a musician. It's the same with christianity.
If you can play the bass well, you are a bassist.
What other definition can there be?
If you get paid for it, you are a professional.
The drummer from Badfinger even came over to my house and gave me that bit of advice, in my bedroom, when I was a teenager.
Planetguy wrote:yeah, i get that. i've been fortunate enough to know plenty of christians and people of other faiths who talk the talk and ALSO walk the walk. i know they exist. i suspect (well, at least i can't DISPROVE IT...hehehe) that you walk the walk as well.
yod wrote:We are all sinners, yet there have always been people who call themselves christian and use it like a hammer. Is that what God wills of them? Absolutely not. Their actions contradict His words. Everyone knows that.
I'm still a sinner. No way to deny that I struggle between my will and His all the time. (Especially this week in Las Vegas!) Yet without the power over sin He gave me at the point of being born again, I'd probably be dead a long time ago.
I'd probably be dead long ago without punk rock.
So, I sympathize, in a way.
Many in my family are Christians, for different reasons.
Most were just raised that way.
But, some needed to turn their life around after it had turned to sh!t.
It has been a mostly positive influence for them.
My grandparents quit drinking...well, at least OPENLY.
But, it still has its negatives.
My grandmother sending me birthday cards declaring that I will burn in Hell for eternity is one.
Planetguy wrote:well, despite indications to the contrary, i'm glad you found something that works for you. a while back you apologized for busting my balls and slinging sh*t.....now it's my turn. hopefully you'll take my name calling and insults hurled as just more mssgb'd BS that's all too commonplace on BM.
truth told....i do respect people who have the stones to stand up their beliefs even if i don't share them.
I'm glad for anyone that takes away solace and peace from their religion.
But, also a little sad for them.
They've retreated into a make-believe world to escape this one.
And, in the process, they avoid finding solutions to REAL problems and CREATE new ones instead.
yod wrote:Speaking to you as a fellow musician, you really ought to try it. Life has been more than exciting since I gave up "my" will. All my musician buddies thought I was crazy, but guess who they call when life get them down?
Those who haven't given up completely are still playing for $35 a night and stuck in an 80s time warp. They're going to die of sclorosis of the liver, just like all my musician relatives did because they have no power over the sin that is destroying them (and the multiple families they've had)
I feel much BETTER now
without God, thank you very much.
If I ever want to be a neurotic mess again I will call him up, from the loony bin.
This thing "reality" has it's ups and downs.
But, it is consistent, and doesn't judge me or tell me that I am a bad person over silly things.
It just "exists"...and that is good enough.
Planetguy wrote:well, like i said above i'm glad for you and anyone else that takes away solace and peace from their religion. if they need it to give them a good moral code and it delivers. hey, also good.
what i find (mildly) objectionable is the widespread misconception among many beleivers that atheists are living an unfulfilled, unsatisfied, and meager existence because they haven't welcomed jesus, allah, buddah, etc into their lives.
nothing could be further from the truth in my case. were i not an atheist, i'd have to say that i truly live what i would call a "blessed life". i've been married to the same great gal for 34 yrs, we own a nice paid off house w land out in the country, i play music that i enjoy w not one band, but several (all very good musicians and even better people), i have more wonderful instruments than i deserve, i love my family and friends, i came thru cancer w all my working parts staying in working order..... and more.
please, trust me when i say.....LIFE IS GOOD. so yeah, it always feels a little patronizing when someone w the best intentions feels bad for me because i don't believe.
I find a lot objectionable.
Not the least of is the insistence that THIS life is just a rehearsal, a test, to get into Heaven.
This life is all that we've got.
So, we'd better get it right the first time.
"Be excellent to each other and party on dudes!" - Bill & Ted
yod wrote:Believe it or not, I'm on your side. If pissing you off will get you to consider searching for the truth, I'll do it twice daily.
Ditto.
Minutemen - Life as a rehearsal
http://youtu.be/7fBkne5tDHQ