Vampier wrote:...Planet Guy ... I thank you for your Post. I suggest only that you speak only for yourself and that is not an insult. I wish very much to clarify although you did get the general expression quite well. Yes we both believe in what we believe and that at times we do differ.
My apology is not meant as back-handed nor is it meant as recognition that "you are correct" or "I am mistaken". This matters not to either of us really but I do apologize for letting myself resort to such insulting diatribe with you. I quite simply realize now that my time and yours for that matter would have been better spent if we did not engage in such as we did. So you are indeed correct in your perception of this. You need not apologize as you were not responsible for my actions and were only reacting to me as I reacted to you. It is like saying something that you know as you say it ... you will regret later.Well I regret the negative things I said about you. You are a good musician and like Quadrophenia ... so what can I say ? I care not rot the "record" as I never have. This Forum has never been a contest for me. I find it vastly interesting at worst. We are all victims of "conditioning" to certain degrees ... Skinner.
I have my meager opinions and you have yours. I do not begrudge you about them ....no mater how stupid and idiotic they are....THIS IS JOKING ... but I think you got that by now. I have agreed with some things you have said on my and others Posts but before I would never admit it and now I will. Normally I would say let us go our own way but I firmly believe that now no matter how different we may each think our paths to be ... they are both going in the same direction ...DOWN.
I have nothing else to say really ... only that I apologize for having said all the nasty things I did that were intended to only aggravate you unfairly. I will no longer do any of this. I ask you to please take this in the Spirit I give it ... no innuendo ... no strings ... I would much rather have you as a fellow musician than as an enemy.
Since we seem to invoke such animosity with one another ... think what we could do if standing beside one another with respect to someone else ? Please feel free to Post your thoughts and opinion anytime on this thread and know that it will be welcomed without fear of insult.
Ta Live Well Die Well
now THAT's what i'm talkin' bout!
vamp, thanks for taking the time to frame all that as well you did. it's a two way street (as is often the case) and for whatever reason we just got under each other's skin. i suspect we'll continue to do exactly the same but i am delighted at the prospect of putting aside the nasty swipes and petty attacks that no one wins.
and if you don't mind me going off point (maybe not all that much) i'll again extend my previous invitation to glen of putting the BS and attacks aside. i hope he'll consider it but i'm not too optimistic about it.
there's always plenty to disagree with when it comes to expressing opinions on matters as weighty as politics, religion, music, etc...esp when these are being discussed in a forum such as this. but how we disagree says much about our character.
i strongly believe that even some of the most contentious and ugly disagreements between complete polar opposites here on BandMixItUp would never rise to level of meaness, namecalling, and vitriol that they do if the combatants were instead sitting across the table from one another knocking back a brew or three.
i do have to disagree w you here on one point. your contention that
"no matter how different we may each think our paths to be ... they are both going in the same direction ...DOWN."
well, then i'm gonna have to say we ARE on different paths..... by no means am i some starry eyed naive optimist sitting around a campfire singing Cumbaya, but i don't see my path (or this country's, or mankind's) as "going down". quite the contrary.
thanks again. and i'd be remiss if i didn't offer up my apology for playing my part in this silly turf war. it's my hope you'll accept it and i'm confident you will.
straight ahead.