Chippy, I appreciate your advice, I really do. And I believe you genuinely have my interests at heart.
The only thing I could compare it to though, would be... What if it were a novel I had written? What if it was my car that was stolen? Or even being used without my permission. Would the same advice apply? You would likely agree that it doesn't, but why? The only reason would be, that those other things you perceive as having more value. But I don't perceive it that way. Some of those songs are very good songs. One of them in particular, is worthy of being on a gold or platinum album.
If there was any confusion over copyright, it would make it difficult to be accepted for licensing by a big name. Do I lose that opportunity, because I am waiting for a court date in the future, to resolve it?
That is why I feel I should handle it now. Get a judgement against them... which unfortunately for them, would likely mean ENORMOUS fines... $10,000 per song is what the courts have been handing down recently.
If I clear it up now. They would FINALLY get the message, that it is best to leave my songs alone, and concentrate on writing their own, anddoing covers to fill the blanks. It is likely that they don't do this, because they are under the delusion that if they don't SELL them, they are not liable for anything. But they simply don't understand how serious a crime this, these days.
They probably also believe that MY SONGS are the ticket to their making it big. But they are not dedicated enough, and not talented enough to make it big, especially without a strong front man. And they have only two, really solid positions, in that band. Drummer and Lead guitar. One middle-level guy, the bass player, and two others who quite honestly... SUCK (when we are speaking of professional level talent).
It should be funny really.
What did some of my industry friends call them?
Oh yeah... "The Craig Maxim Tribute Band"
LOL
But it's not funny, when I have material being considered by Tim McGraw, and am working on a demo for another guy, who may get a contract with Atlantic Records in a few months.
Not being in that band anymore, was a good thing in many ways... I'm able to write the songs I'm writing now, and not be limited by having the weaker links take a month or more to learn each new song.
I didn't pursue the band name in court.
You'd think they would have been thrilled about that, and just went about their own business and write their own songs.
No one has to harm the other that way.
I get my creative freedom back. They have a decent local band. The guy with the least talent gets what he always wanted.... control of the band.
Everyone's happy right?
But no... they insist on digging a hole that they will never get out of.
Had they handled things differently, rather than facing a judge, who knows if I couldn't have afforded them an opportunity later?
THIS is the WRONG BUSINESS to burn bridges in!
They just don't understand much about the business on that level. None of them have ever gotten that close.