everybody has a different taste when it comes to their axe ive been playing for about 40 years and i have played a lot of guitars but recently i just bought a ibanez msc550 (montage series) and im telling you it is a fantastic guitar if you get a chance play one 5 will get you 10 you will buy it i knew this was my baby the minute i picked it up and played it but their are many,many,many fine guitars out there guitars are like women they come in all shapes and sizes but they all make you feel good .
I am not sure what you are looking for , I have '07 M-38 and '54 00-18 Martin. Both are great. I really like Collings and will get one in the near future. I have been looking for a Gibson to replace the '58 LG2 I sold last year.
I do alot of fingerstyle , the 38 has very good projection and is very balanced in tone. The 18 is a smaller body,but is very loud and the neck seems more comfortable fo slide and open tuning songs.
I also have a Takamine cutaway "D" size that is nice, but has nowhere the tonal qualities of the Martins. This is not saying it is a bad guitar, it sounds good plugged into a PA.
As far as bending the strings on solo's? The Martins work very well, DEPENDING on the string size you use. I use medium (.013)and it is hard, but with lites(.012) it is just as easy as anyother acoustic I have played. Just depends on what you are use to.