#77846 by
Whitesel
Sat Aug 08, 2009 11:10 am
Yeah, I think a lot of us have been there at one point, you'll find a lot of people in the same boat, you play bar gigs for years and years for little money and don't seem to go anywhere and once you get married and have kids, coming home from gigs in nearby states at 7am and only having 40 bucks in your pocket to show for it doesn't go over to well with the family. At that point...if you are still playing ...it's not for the women or the money...or the free beer....although we do like free beer, we don't drink nearly as much of it now as we did back when we were 22
I took some time off myself from gigging, never selling all my gear...but it did give me time to work on new stuff and technique and work in a studio for a few years. My cousin Barry inspired me to go back into playing out again after seeing his success switching from guitar to bass and touring with Michael Schenker, Uli Jon Roth, UFO, Dokken, Nugent, Malmsteen.
It's much easier going back and having a perspective of what you want to do when you are older, I play in some bar bands on the side with older friends and we just book gigs that make good money so we can have fun on the weekends since all the members of those bands have 9-5 jobs and also playing in multiple bands. We have it set up so if I have other bigger gigs and can't make gigs with that band, I have a temp replacement...just in case.