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#50224 by Shredd6
Fri Dec 19, 2008 10:12 pm
stillkicken wrote:
RyanStrain3032 wrote:It was all a lie.


Been there, done that. You'd think after being caught redhanded a woman wouldnt do it again, wrong. If you stay in that relationship you'll get lied to again, and again. Big fat hairy lies.


Yea dude.. This girl just wanted to see how much of her bullshit you'd take. She's sizing you up man. Girls like her want to see how much you love them so they can move on to more devious sh*t (If there is such a thing. Damn man.). If you let her off with this, she'll just f**k you over anytime she feels like.

If you let her off, you're sending her the message that she can do whatever she wants and saying sorry will fix everything. Cheating is already on her mind, I guarantee it. You can take that to the bank dude.

f**k her!

Dump her! Other chicks will want you more for it anyway.

#50250 by fisherman bob
Sat Dec 20, 2008 1:25 am
I believe it was I who once said "over 2 billion women (that's four billion boobies Crip!) and so little time." This must be heaven! Later...

#50251 by Andragon
Sat Dec 20, 2008 1:27 am
Bob, why would you do that to poor Crip? I mean, that number of boobs will make him go cross-eyed ffs lol

#50278 by gbheil
Sat Dec 20, 2008 11:58 am
Oh no Robin oh oh oh nooooo. there is noting dispicable any one woman can do to give women a bad name.
Women are awsome!
If God created anything better than women he kept it for himself. :wink:

Ryan, I am glad it was a lie.

(1) Death by CA is f'in UGLY!! I,ve pushed that last doseof morphine one to many times. :(
(2) You have learned a lesson about human nature and behaviors that you will never forget, and despite the very real emotional pain you felt it was a cheep class my man.
(3) And most importantly, real ernest prayers for someone are never wasted. We may not always see the hand of God in motion. But he's there. :D

#50288 by fisherman bob
Sat Dec 20, 2008 2:49 pm
Andragon, I can't do jack to Crip, I was showing Ryan the infinite possibilities in the world of women (and boobs) now that he's a free man! (Footloose and fancy free, ah I wish that was me again)

#50292 by gbheil
Sat Dec 20, 2008 3:36 pm
I look around at all the beautifull women and boobs and think uhmm that looks good. But I tell ya true I would not trade the steady loving relationship I have with my wife for all the poon on earth.
( Though the temptation would probably drive me insane )

#50295 by neanderpaul
Sat Dec 20, 2008 3:59 pm
Run and don't look back.... ever.

#50497 by Crip2Nite
Mon Dec 22, 2008 10:29 am
Boobs rule! :twisted: :P

#50610 by Gi
Tue Dec 23, 2008 4:08 pm
she needs therapy or something. its one thing to be a lying, manipulative bitch...another to pretend she has a fatal disease. strange....

its easy to pour out our hearts to ask for divine help, but incredibly difficult to not wish her be attacked and eaten in her bed by a pack of rabid squirrels. shouldn't we try to be sympathetic to her? what kind of deep emotional hurt has she suffered to pull sh*t like this?

not that im the perfect example of a compassionate person (yea, please), but try to be understanding is all im suggesting. people are imperfect, & sometimes messed up, and even though they love you, for some reason they are compelled to hurt you. yea, i know, it sucks....

im sorry ryan- i hope it works out for you. im sure it will.

#50639 by philbymon
Tue Dec 23, 2008 10:14 pm
Sorry, Gi, but I must disagree to the nth degree. There is absolutely NO REASON to waste one's time on this girl-child's freaky lil brain trip, even if it's only to sympathize with her. This is a perfect example of an emotional vampire - i.e., someone to be avoided at all costs. There IS evil in this world, & no matter the source, whether she's emotionally unbalanced or chemically imbalanced or what have you, there is no way that I could possibly tell this poor used bloke to buck up & help her through her head-tramas at his own emotional expense.

That is what a shrink is for, not a lover.

When two ppl pair up, they need to have SOME semblance of knowledge of how to treat themselves, & others, as well. If they do not, they need to work through these things with their family & friends BEFORE entering into a long-term relationship of any type.

When ppl do digusting things like this to a person, the best & only solution, imho, is to remove oneself from the equation, no matter the cost to the user. To do otherwise is to enable them or reward them for their sickness & their actions. Let the ppl she hasn't put through hell help her & sympathize with her & be supportive, but at this point all he can do is get out & get out quick!

"Yeah, it's a damned shame. Sorry 'boutcher troubles, but I gotta get on with my life, get over this hurt, regain my own emotional equilibrium, & learn from this experience so it can never happen to me again, all without developing dangerous counterproductive emotional baggage." That is a healthier way to handle it.

She needs to work it out on her own, well, perhaps with a support group that does NOT include Ryan. Whatever she feels for him, you can remain assured that it is NOT "love," & is not worth spending another wasted moment on.

Ryan needs to take the time to heal, & to find his own brand of happiness as far as he can get from the users & betrayers of his trust. He also needs to define exactly what he really wants & can accept in another, & have the freedom to find it, with nary another second wasted around this kind of person.

To do anything less is to abuse oneself, & I would hope to hell that he isn't into that.

#50644 by stillkicken
Tue Dec 23, 2008 10:31 pm
philbymon is right, I wasted 4 years of my life trying to make it all better for what actually was a sweet girl, everything was a lie though and it never stopped, I had to be the adult and that got old. Crazy sh*t she would lie about, even lies that served no purpose at all. What ended it was one night (drunk) she pulled on a gun on me and pulled the trigger, the safety was on so I got it away from her. I had her arrested and would you f**k beleive they let her out of jail into a womens shelter???? On the courtdate there was a mediator that talked me out of pressing charges, the girl looked at me and pleaded, I had always felt sorry for her. 4 years of my life wasted, for what?

#50658 by gbheil
Wed Dec 24, 2008 1:23 am
Yes, RUN!!!!

#50659 by HowlinJ
Wed Dec 24, 2008 1:39 am
Pray?
Looks like this thread should be retitled PREY .....
And Ryan was IT! :shock:
(Unless,of cours, the little screemin' bugger is just goofin' on us all. :wink: )

#50670 by Black57
Wed Dec 24, 2008 3:31 am
Crip2Nite wrote:Boobs rule! :twisted: :P


Hey, I got boobs. I guess that means I rule :lol:

#50698 by Starfish Scott
Wed Dec 24, 2008 2:59 pm
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAAA You moron, you actually believed her..

SUCKERS!

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