Yep, every time the band personnel changes, the band dynamic changes. Learn to roll with the changes. If it is truly a democracy, everyone has an equal stake and an equal say in how things go creatively. The idea that you have a greater stake is just a misplaced sense of entitlement. Unless you are paying their salaries you have no right to call the vocal shots or relegate new guy to guitar only servitude.
Get out your cel phone and record one song with the band. Do it first with BU vocals and then W/O BU vocals. Which version do the other members like better? Trust their judgement. If harmonies need a little work, schedule a vocal practice and work on vocals without bass and drums. Make the vocals awesome together as a team!
Lead vocalist ego is getting in your way right now and it will tear this band apart unless you get right with all your band mates. If you want to be the frontman and the focus of attention, be awesome! Come to practice and blow their minds with your skills, talent, and willingness to work hard and do whatever it takes to make great music. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and start channeling all the strengths in this lineup instead of putting up walls and pissing on your territorial boundaries. To abuse an old cliche'... There is no "I" in team... or Rock Band.
Get out your cel phone and record one song with the band. Do it first with BU vocals and then W/O BU vocals. Which version do the other members like better? Trust their judgement. If harmonies need a little work, schedule a vocal practice and work on vocals without bass and drums. Make the vocals awesome together as a team!
Lead vocalist ego is getting in your way right now and it will tear this band apart unless you get right with all your band mates. If you want to be the frontman and the focus of attention, be awesome! Come to practice and blow their minds with your skills, talent, and willingness to work hard and do whatever it takes to make great music. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and start channeling all the strengths in this lineup instead of putting up walls and pissing on your territorial boundaries. To abuse an old cliche'... There is no "I" in team... or Rock Band.
Cajundaddy