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#226109 by mark hethfeld
Tue Nov 19, 2013 3:26 am
how about: Look y'all know that i have had issues for ome time with the way this band works /doesnt work and/or the music weve been writing. there has been little to no change in these areas over time even though ive brought it up in a sensitive manner at appropriate times on a reasonable number of occasions. i have become convinced that this pattern will only continue and so feel that it is a waste of time/resources for me to continue. im sure youll have no problem finding a replacement. no hard feelings. I dont want this to be personal or difficult or inconvenient for anyone so from now on ill still consider you my friends (if applicable) but I need put my time/resources where they will be more productive and that you will be better off without me to disrupt the dynamic that youre working to develop. I love you all (if applicable). good luck. call me when youve got a gig, and if i can, i will be in the audience to support you. (they probably wont have a gig, but if they do you can go or not go depending on how cool they are.)

#226110 by mark hethfeld
Tue Nov 19, 2013 3:26 am
how about: Look y'all know that i have had issues for ome time with the way this band works /doesnt work and/or the music weve been writing. there has been little to no change in these areas over time even though ive brought it up in a sensitive manner at appropriate times on a reasonable number of occasions. i have become convinced that this pattern will only continue and so feel that it is a waste of time/resources for me to continue. im sure youll have no problem finding a replacement. no hard feelings. I dont want this to be personal or difficult or inconvenient for anyone so from now on ill still consider you my friends (if applicable) but I need put my time/resources where they will be more productive and that you will be better off without me to disrupt the dynamic that youre working to develop. I love you all (if applicable). good luck. call me when youve got a gig, and if i can, i will be in the audience to support you. (they probably wont have a gig, but if they do you can go or not go depending on how cool they are.)

#226126 by GuitarMikeB
Tue Nov 19, 2013 3:16 pm
mark hethfeld wrote:how about: Look y'all know that i have had issues for ome time with the way this band works /doesnt work and/or the music weve been writing. there has been little to no change in these areas over time even though ive brought it up in a sensitive manner at appropriate times on a reasonable number of occasions. i have become convinced that this pattern will only continue and so feel that it is a waste of time/resources for me to continue. im sure youll have no problem finding a replacement. no hard feelings. I dont want this to be personal or difficult or inconvenient for anyone so from now on ill still consider you my friends (if applicable) but I need put my time/resources where they will be more productive and that you will be better off without me to disrupt the dynamic that youre working to develop. I love you all (if applicable). good luck. call me when youve got a gig, and if i can, i will be in the audience to support you. (they probably wont have a gig, but if they do you can go or not go depending on how cool they are.)


Dude! This thread is 5 years old, I'm pretty sure the guy quit the band by now!

#226131 by Slacker G
Tue Nov 19, 2013 4:57 pm
Perhaps this is desperation for music speak from one without personal input to add to the forum. :)

#226154 by zar535135
Wed Nov 20, 2013 1:11 pm
I have had to quit a few bands in my life. Some were amicable other not so much. I basically said "Im Quitting" or "Im outta here".
One time I said "After this last gig Im done, this has become a waste of time". For the most part we all remained friends afterwards. Band members can be like co-workers on a job, good people to hang out with,just can't work with them.

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