Crip2nite wrote:Well...there ya go cliffy.. this is a MUSICIAN site... Not GAY FINDERS ARE US!
No wonder ya can't find anybody.... maybe you should go out to a few gay clubs and socialize instead of sitting there complaining how no one will help you... now...GET A LIFE!!
How many times do I make this clear? You don't think I know what this site is? You think I'm looking for a boyfriend? No! I am looking for someone who plays keyboard and is good at what he plays, and someone who shares my passion for playing pop and soft rock music, and can show me how to do mixing and recording. So in essence, I am STILL in the right kind of place. But again, as mentioned, the individuals I'm looking to talk to, or looking to jam with, are probably either not on the site at all due to the fact that they don't know about it, or don't want to pay the extra fee JUST to be able to contact someone.
Also I would consider going out, but I don't know of good places in my city where I can easily find keyboard players who are into the kind of music I enjoy. Bars and clubs of ANY kind are OUT as the first places to start.
Also I have a life, unlike you, who first wastes his time trolling, then finally says that he can't help, then reverts back to thinking that I'm using this site to find other gay guys, and assumes that I'd be cool going to a gay bar or club, when I want to avoid bars and clubs of any kind in my search. A lot of them attract a lot of shady characters, and the events there usually take place during the late night hours and are very poorly lit as opposed to say the student center of a college, which is usually well-lit, and where most events take place during the daytime.
Also since I'm legally blind, and cannot see weel enough to drive, my mom or dad would have to take me, and I am not comfortable having them take me. Second, I would like to start my search at places that are well-lit and where most events take place during the daytime, and at a place where there isn't any drinking involved.