PaperDog wrote:Planetguy wrote:GuitarMikeB wrote:
BTW, Tammy hasn't been coming here because the talk has been too over the top with politics, etc.
I aint giving up on politics But I noticed that nobody ever 'asked any of the girls what their opinons were of anything... If you want more girls on this site , you gotta facilitate and oprafy the joint...
I'll start:
Ladies, I miss each and every one of you... Please come back! You are needed here... 
Well Dog, I'm not really sure why any woman would choose to hang around here for long. Tammy, Peg, Chaeya, Black 57 and others all have a lot to offer in music discussions but their voices are easily drowned out by a bunch of frustrated old coons with gravely underdeveloped social skills... us.
I'm afraid it comes with the territory. Male musicians are often sensitive, emotional, and easily offended by criticism. It's part of why we gravitate to music. We also seem to feel that our opinion is somehow more valid than anyone else's opinion. It isn't. A little lite political talk quickly escalates into personal insult where the gloves come off, the blades come out, and everyone starts gouging away with "Oh yeah? Well your music sucks and you can't play schite!!!".
One of the solutions on other forums is to limit Poli discussions to the Poli forum only. No exceptions. This requires active moderation which is non-existent here on BM. Anything goes here as long as you don't post a cel # or email address.
I don't have any good answers, but I participate on two car forums and a lot of women are comfortable there and fit right in. Who would have guessed? There is a concerted effort to keep discussions civil and avoid personal insult that may be significant but I can't be sure.
And here I am again, back in the den of vipers.
