Kramerguy wrote:I admittedly have little respect for women anymore.
They cannot be happy no matter how hard you try. They can never accept a man for who he is, even though that's supposedly the man they fell in love with. They relentlessly to try to change men into something they are not.
They refuse to speak to men on the mans level, yet always expect the man to speak to them on the women's level.
They claim they just want a nice guy, yet will dump him for the next "bad boy" who comes in their lives, who will ultimately treat them like crap, and all the while they will complain to every friend they have about not being able to find a nice guy.. talk about circular logic.
They make even the smallest insignificant issues into mountainous problems and always throw gas on a fire instead of trying to put it out.
They use sex as a tool, and sometimes as a weapon.
They have zero respect for men, which explains my first sentence here - I give what I get.
Sounds like you had a string of bad luck there bro. Long ago, I realized how to drop my 'need' (not the same as desire) for women. Its true...'Need' translates to look of desperation...When I stopped needing, I stopped looking desperate. LOL!
For some reason, that worked in my favor. Lots of girls talk to me now... cause they feel relatively safe. That's what it takes to get an open door to their world. Then, Its about cordiality and kindness...(That's what it takes to get to get them to look at my world). Finally, I don't necessarily let everybody into my world (Mystery)... If I do, they have the option to stay or leave... Nobody is my prisoner...and I am not their prisoner..hence Cant be 'owned'.
Through natural attrician, the real friends stay with me, the rest just fade off. I have a girlfriend now, and She knows I 'need ' her





