MrGlambert wrote:Never been diagnosd with Asperger's or Tourette's, but I have been diagnosed with ADHD and later OCD. But I don't think that has ANYTHING to do with my current situation where i can't find any decent guys to become friends with and work on some pop and soft rock music together.
Sorry if the OCD IS showing up on this forum though in the form of me being persistent.
One cannot hide such a condition, It really exposes itself openly...even though its not intentional...
You've been searching for this type of person for 6, maybe 7 years? and the specifications are actually unreachable, hence the perpetual goal of pursuit. (Aka obsession)
Persistence recognizes when its time to quit. OCD does not, and that's the difference here.
I would ask that perhaps you might consider the following:
1) Accept that the type of person you are seeking, just simply does not exist.
2) End your pursuit for such a person...(You may actually find and enjoy a sense of relief, long overdue)
3) Write and compose some music about this journey's end. Its acreative way to close out a chapter and begin a new one...