I also play other stuff. So looking from the outside in and the inside out as it were.
Most I've found, want you to be part of the team, be part of it. #1
To be a person they can get on with #2
The rest is ability.
I was with one band in which the bassist gave me a hard time, but we got over differences, and practiced together for hours. I think that is where my opinion comes from. But there was no room in that relationship for augmented free flow, so it kinda died.
In essence make sure what you are looking for is right for you I suppose.
Hope this helps, probably not, but I hope so. Go hit em.
PS. I can tune my drums, but even when I have, often times other players haven't even noticed except sound engineers.







