PaperDog wrote:Should a Bar/Club be held responsible for someone who decides to drink heavily , and then Drive? If the answer is yes, then how much responsible? If the answer is no, then how does a victim get reconciliation from loss of loved ones in an accident?
Legally, if I was at a bar and I watched a guy get drunk and you failed to stop serving him drinks. We leave the bar and that idiot hits my car and I get hurt I will sue your ass for being partly responsible, and I will win because I work for lawyers and I know how the law works, even if I push you to just settling with me, I will get some cash. So there's your level of responsibility. Spiritually, I would go out of my way and make sure these people get home safely. One person I know who owns a bar is really cool and there is a neighborhood drunk who comes there and gets sloshed. She cuts him off after a certain time, then she makes sure one of the other patrons drives him home. That's what I mean by being responsible! He's an alcoholic, she can't stop that, but she can at least take care of her end of it. I can't tell you how many drunks Cisco and I have driven home. I could have said "f**k it, not my problem" but if I see it, then I will do something about it. I know too many people who are dead because of these clowns.
PaperDog wrote:So, if some kid decides that its cool to jump off a bridge because some song told him that he should, I'd say that the kid was screwed up to begin with, and I don't care if Satan himself was the voice behind it, its the Kid's fault for not seeking the higher road (if only to reach out to somebody).
Yes, he was screwed up. That's the problem with mental illness. I went through my hell with it and most of my so-called friends just cast me aside and said "it wasn't their problem." Doctors just throwing pills at me all the time. Luckily, I was strong enough to help myself, many people aren't. The mental health resources in this country is sh*t all because everyone thinks we should just be able to "get over it" and the favorite "not our problem."
There are a lot of folks out there screwed up. So if you write a song called "Pull the Trigger" and have lyrics to the effect of saying "put the gun to your head, life is sh*t, pull the trigger, this is it" and have some really down grungy, depressing music in the background - I mean, WTF? Every suicidal maniac will love that song. YOU ARE PARTLY RESPONSIBLE. Maybe not on a legal level, but spiritually YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE, and that sh*t will come back to haunt you.
Yes, people love to blame and not take responsibility but it works both ways. If I see someone drunk, then I need to step in and do something about it whether it's my job or not. And believe me, there were plenty of times when I didn't, and I feel bad that I didn't. Fortunately nothing happened, but now I will go out of my way to make sure something is done if I can.
If you do dark, demonic type music and pretend you're satan on stage and all that, then that's the type of element you will attract. You may take off the make up go home to your house in the suburbs and go to church on Sunday and say it was all a game. But there are people who take that stuff seriously and they believe you live it and breathe it. So you are partly responsible for contributing to the darkness that surrounds this planet. If that's what one wants to do fine, but they need to own up to what they do.
PaperDog wrote:As I see it, if folks boast success in their lives without due credit to God (Or the 'good" forces'), then its only fair that when things are going wrong for them because of their decisions, they shouldn't be blaming the devil (or the 'bad Forces')
I agree, I take total responsibility for all that I do. When sh*t happens it's usually because I wasn't paying attention or I failed to tighten up some loose ends. That's the problem I have with religion, it takes the responsibility away from them and give it to some other being.
Chaeya