Norway Road wrote:sanshouheil wrote:Or for that matter setting age limits. It's descrimination to me.
I'd have to disagree with that one. I'm sure there's a statistic somewhere that can show that the most successful bands in the world were roughly the same age and grew up together. It's hard to start a band from scratch that has the same cohesion and spontaneity as the garage band you were in with your best friends. It definitely helps to be around the same age, or at the very least, the same level of maturity. What kills me is that when I do sit in with older guys, they typically smoke pot like they're 16 and they complain like they're 12. I've held off from really making an effort to start a project because it has been a long time since I've met a musician that I wouldn't mind hanging out with outside of a rehearsal or a jam session.
You are of course at liberty to disagree. And your point has some validity.
But to play devils advocate for a minute let me suggest ...
Would seem to me you may be a poor choice of character ?
Or just run in the wrong circles perhaps ?
Age has not to do with talent, skill, determination, or character.
And
that IMO is what we should be looking for, not the age or sex of an individual
As far as women ... being a nurse I have worked with women predominately for many years after being raised working oilfield with predominantly men..
Many women ( I really hate to generalize but here I go again ) remain in constant competition together. Also many women have to feel they are " friends " in order to cooperate in accomplishing even the smallest of task. Where as men whom may go to fist city after working hours, can ( again in many cases not all ) cooperate in order to complete a given task simply because they realize it must be done and the individual whom they may be in contention with, have the needed skill sets..