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#125694 by RGMixProject
Tue Oct 05, 2010 11:04 am
Divorce

Ok, I'll start this one

"D" is for discovering new ideas..........

#125706 by philbymon
Tue Oct 05, 2010 1:18 pm
"D" is also for Doing new things, changing Directions, Dumping out old ways, Discovering new ones, & Defining yourself in new ways. Life is all about aDapting, ain't it?

#125725 by philbymon
Tue Oct 05, 2010 7:09 pm
CraigMaxim wrote:


Image


LOL

That's good, Craig. Keep your sense of humor!

#125731 by Stringdancer
Tue Oct 05, 2010 7:53 pm
CraigMaxim wrote:


Image


I wondered when you were packing if the computer was going with you and if you had a place to stay.

#125733 by gtZip
Tue Oct 05, 2010 8:32 pm
I'm don't agree with divorce any more...
I'll go crazy, have a nervous break down, lay down and die, never utter another word to her etc, before I voluntarily leave that baby with a broken home.
Did that once. Never again.

#125736 by CraigMaxim
Tue Oct 05, 2010 8:40 pm
Nav4c wrote:
I wondered when you were packing if the computer was going with you and if you had a place to stay.




LOL, well... Cookie Monster is the answer I suppose! :-)


Which... does NOT mean that I am, now living on Sesame Street! :shock:

Although... I had heard that Bert was looking for a new roomate Image but... he apparently patched things up with Ernie!

Image

And btw... Bert is NOT gay... just socially awkward! :lol:

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#125738 by gtZip
Tue Oct 05, 2010 8:48 pm
I should clarify that I mean verbal fighting. Bitching, arguments, name calling, etc.
Some situations, unfortunately, call for immediate separation.

Regardless... I hope things don't get too heavy for you.
It's brutal on the heart and the psyche.

#125749 by Stringdancer
Tue Oct 05, 2010 11:41 pm
CraigMaxim wrote:
Nav4c wrote:
I wondered when you were packing if the computer was going with you and if you had a place to stay.




LOL, well... Cookie Monster is the answer I suppose! :-)


Which... does NOT mean that I am, now living on Sesame Street! :shock:

Although... I had heard that Bert was looking for a new roomate Image but... he apparently patched things up with Ernie!

Image

And btw... Bert is NOT gay... just socially awkward! :lol:



Kidding aside, glad to see you still in good spirit.

#125754 by ANGELSSHOTGUN
Wed Oct 06, 2010 12:21 am
OH, SHOOT, One of your friends. Never been there,never will. Never be able to understand the pain. All I can do is say a prayer that your inner strength will lead you to,,, tomorrow. Good Lord. I asked you to sing that stupid song of mine, in the middle of all this turmoil. That has to be funnier than one of Ratsass jokes. I know you are not laughing. I'm not either.

Craig, I doubt, that, too many, would disagree,,, we love you. Need more be said.

#125756 by Sean Derek
Wed Oct 06, 2010 12:36 am
Sorry to here that. To be completely honest, it takes time. Thats what worked for me anyways.


All the best!!
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#125757 by philbymon
Wed Oct 06, 2010 12:38 am
Sean Akins wrote:Sorry to here that. To be completely honest, all I can say is the only time you get over it is when you meet someone else. Thats what worked for me anyways.


All the best!!


Wowzers! Isn't that what they call love on the rebound? I was totally over my ex before I settled in with anyone new.

#125821 by 1collaborator
Wed Oct 06, 2010 9:03 pm
I stayed at the super 8 in St Mary's Ga last weekend when we went to Jacksonville to see my wifes father who is in the hospital not doing very well, and I had you on my mind and thought of calling to see if you were busy and might want to get a bite. But things didn't go real well for us so I put it off till maybe next time were coming to Jacksonville in a week or 2. I would really like to meet you before you get all rich, famous , and too busy for the rest of the world. Everybody knows its just a matter of time.

I hope you find whats best for yourself. I also know there is always 2 sides to every story like yours. My wife and I seperated for a year after we were married about 5 years. Seems we had a lot to discover about ourselves. We got back together and Nov 18 will celebrate 33 of marriage. Its been a tough row to hoe for sure. Just remember that anything worth having takes a lot of sacrifice and compromise . I hope and pray you and all involved the very best. If you need anything my # is in my profile . Your more than welcome to call anytime .

#125854 by CraigMaxim
Thu Oct 07, 2010 12:59 am



Thanks everyone!

You guys are very kind with the compliments, and very thoughtful with the advice, which I appreciate VERY much! I am trying to stay POSITIVE and focused on the FUTURE than dwell too much on what was. I can say that I am VERY VERY HAPPY, to be living in Florida again finally! I'm not leaving Florida for A LONG TIME, if I can help it! Unless it is to go on a tour! ;-)

I've been working in the studio... even crashing there a few times! :shock:

I'm finishing up songs that have been on the shelf awhile, and others that are completely new! Hope to preview some soon. I have some people ready to book me, when I get all my ducks in a row too, so, it will be GREAT to start performing live again!

I am VERY hopeful for the future.

You guys have been soooooo helpful. I can't thank you enough! :-)


#126092 by Krul
Sun Oct 10, 2010 11:06 pm
I posted a topic on this before. Divorce was hard for me, and hopefully it's not as painful for you as it was for me. My situation was kind of like yours bro. I had neglected most of my friends during the five years I was married, so they were nowhere to be found( moved, changed numbers, etc.) when I tried to contact them. After that I couldn't even eat or sleep for a long time, so I lost a few lbs. But thankfully I survived it and learned a lot.

You're going to make out fine. It's really just about facing your emotions and thoughts. That's where the healing begins.

You seem like a strong guy. Very talented too. Enjoy the next chapter of your life my man.

God bless.

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