For me, it was a distinct, and very memorable chain of events.
First, was during the late 70's, listening to my big brother's stereo - 8 track player. The album: Boston. The song: Long time. That intro with the guitar and organ just blew me away. I listened to it over and over, and over again. I knew then, I wanted to play guitar.
With no guitar available, living between a dozen cornfields, that dream stayed just a dream. Then, in 1980, I got my first taste of even tastier guitar in Rush's "all the world's a stage". The raw intensity on some songs, and the sheer mysticism (AL using a volume pedal and echoplex) blew me away yet again. Then, of all the songs, came... Jukebox Hero.. A song that seemed to strike at the very heart of what I was feeling when I hear tasty guitar... "that one guitar.."
At that time, my brother started playing drums, and my parents made me pick a wind or brass instrument, so I picked saxophone. Didn't really care for it. My brother started a teen band, and the one guy on guitar was amazing, he could rip blues with such feel and intensity, on a fender mustang, no less. Little did I know that was a $35 beater guitar in 1980, but still to this day I can hear his playing in my head, and never look down on that guitar lol.
So finally in 1983, my brother picked up a cheapo japanese SG copy, it was really a super crappy guitar, but I self taught, and played the crap out of that thing. Learned from just watching and imitating other guitarists who came to jam with my bro. Before I knew it, they were gone, and I was jamming with my bro. Fun times... we played rush, iron maiden, etc.. just drums and guitar. No doubt it probably sounded like arse back then lol, but we had a shitload of fun.
I spent the next 4 years locked in my room, slowly buying gear, got my own guitar (mom finally got me one, a hondo LP copy, not a bad git though), bought a marshall amp and a couple of stomp boxes... Off to the races. I sucked at leads, didn't have the resources or instinct to self-teach, thought everything was out of my ability, but wrote a bit of music, all cheesy 80's metal lol, but it was exciting.
Got an offer to join a major philly band at 18 (friend of a friend knew someone, I got lucky), but the band soon fell apart and dissolved within months after I joined, not ever making it back onto a stage (lost singer, crippled the band, and drugs, and a yoko also helped). Tried several other bands. All seemed to sit on the couch talking about how they were going to make it but doing nothing to actually make anything happen (none even gigging).
So I eventually resigned to working, eating, sleeping, and eventually started on a career and marriage, etc...
Before I knew it, I wasn't playing anymore, not even on weekends. It was paining me, and I was increasingly miserable in day to day life. Finally, about 2-3 years ago, I told my wife how I felt and that I wanted to re-inves tin gear and start playing again, maybe join a band.. she somehow knew all along that I was suffering, and basically said "it's about time!"... haha. know thyself, I guess.
So the rest is history. I played my ass off for about a year, getting the skill set back, with the help of internet, I was able to start doing leads and comprehend them, actually played so hard that I developed a pretty hard case of carpal tunnel, but that ain't stopping me muhahaha.
Now I'm in two bands, and possibly starting a third project soon. And since I'm now paragraphs deep into this topic I can whisper a new exciting prospect....
We might be heading to LA in 6 months to record a full length album, with some sponsorship and real publishing backing. shhh. don't tell anyone, don't want to jinx myself lol. damn, already did. Nothing is carved in stone, and everything changes, so I'm not holding my breath... but it's a helluva opportunity that's been offered to one of my projects and we intend to run with it
Cheers!