In his defense Haley- in the past you had to buy a few local papers, maybe $3.00 investment. It really didn't cost anything except to the band who was looking to buy the ad. Or you go to the music store and check out he boards. It was actually a better system- the posers were MUCH FEWER back then.. it took more resolve and effort just to contact each other.
Craigslist is free, and has a much better system for targeting the locality. Say what you will about CL, but it's free, easy, and I've found great employment as well as great bands on there. BMIX could compete with that, if they dropped the pricetag, even $19.95 for a year or something might be reasonable, but $10 a month, plus banner ads? And what do you get? Constant emails to spend even more on bandvista.
Sure, CL doesn't have the forums, at least not like this, but even these forums are weak and juvenile compared to the vast musician forums on the net like harmony central, 8notes, etc.. as well as many instrument specific forums out there.
I come here because it's a convenient distraction, and the challenge of arguing politics and religion with what might be the most concentrated group of right wingers is nothing short of a vigorous mental workout.