CraigMaxim wrote:Rev Mike wrote:One thing I have learned from these debates is the choice of wording we use often either fans the flames or snuffs them. I chose to use specific words to fire craig up in the beginning of this debate in the other forum, then when I saw that it was not going to go well in a heated debate, I brought the temperature down by acknowleging some valid points from the other side. These forums only get as heated as we choose them to get.
Right. And that's not the fault of the issue or of debates themselves. The participants have to agree to be civil. Like you and I Mike, we toned it down after awhile, but part of it was that we began to respect each other a little more. And found some common ground.
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That is one thing that my sacred marker always does for me...in all my personal face to face debates, its always marijuana that keeps the tone civil, it gives me an advantage in the debate, I don't have to think, I just channel "god" to do the talking, but I'm often told I am very insightful, though sometimes, I am left with only vague memory of what I actually said, so forums have that advantage to look back. And I often have to re-read my own posts cause I sometimes go into a trance when writing.
There is a reason that one of the oldest street slangs for marijuana is "peace pipe"
and anyone who has ever debated while smoking knows that you don't really get high when you are in deep thought, you get insight.