Right now I'd settle for one band, don't get me started on dealing with my father...been there done that.
Best of luck on all fronts, you already know about the natural methods of keeping in good health, try and get him up and moving though, that will help a lot.
My uncle got sick a few weeks ago, (joints inflamed and swollen, intense pain, very similar to bad arthritis) he was in pretty bad shape for a while, barely able to go to the john, but just started trying to get up and out of the house a little this weekend, he's improving daily now and we just went to bid on a small job, did a water heater installation Saturday. I had to do most of the work but that was ok with me, he was ready to go so off we went. But we haven't had any work in over a month, that's put us both in bad shape. Looks like it might pick up now that he can go again. Might even be able to go pick up the guitar I took to a shop to sell on consignment. You KNOW it's bad when I decide to sell a guitar...
Sometimes I hate getting old...
Get him up and moving if possible, it helps. A lot.
Good luck Bob, hope it all works out well.
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