1.) Put up some recording of your work to attract like-minded players who are into what you're doing.
2.) Don't be so sexist! Men can play well, too!
3.) Fill out your profile a bit to show your musical influences & personal perferences, & what sort of equipment you have.
4.) Tell ppl what instrument you play, if any.
Get these together, & you're more likely to find that which you seek.
Best of luck.
