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#20515 by jimmydanger
Thu Jan 31, 2008 2:32 pm
We all make choices in life and must live with them. You made a choice by getting married and having kids. This does not mean you can't do music, but it does mean it comes after those things on the priority list. If you're having problems finding people in your age group look for younger people who have less pressing priorities. But do refrain from calling names on this board and you might just stick around long enough to learn something.

#20519 by Irish Anthony
Thu Jan 31, 2008 2:57 pm
i hear what your saying skunk...but it looks like you have already made your choice with the house and the two cars kids etc...the ship for stardom has well and truly sailed by this stage....if you never took the road with the two cars and the house and kids you wouldnt have anything to lose if you get my meaning...


but now you have the house and all the frills you will never give up that sence of security to starve for your art when its more than just you involved...i would starve for my art but i dont want my kids(and i dont have any yet) to starve with me...its a hard fact but its the way it is....


the more you have to lose the less chance you will do it....

#20520 by RhythmMan
Thu Jan 31, 2008 3:03 pm
Mmm, seems like the more you have, - the more you have to lose . . .
#20565 by da skunk
Fri Feb 01, 2008 2:00 am
it's not about playing with younger folkes. i've met many a 20+yr old that was an animal behind there instrument. I also am proud to say i've taught all types of folks from womans self help groups to handicap individuals and believe it or not a three yr old(not mine). and the normal all around students. i've been very blessed to be sorounded by all ages. seriously. 69 the oldest. so let me say i did not understand the jokes i'm just feeling alittle 37 as of jan 13th. my apologies. just seems as if i have insane drive and latter 30 somethins seem to be alittle less driven than me. the younger guys in there 20's seem to love original stuff and no covers. older guys no originals. i'm in the middle i believe i still have a whole lot left as an original musician and have learned that its a whole lot easier to play covers an a casino making 60a yr min. while throwing out cd's of originals. its a frustrating situation. that's what i mean by revolution. do both. what an amazing concept! :idea: :evil:
#20567 by Guitaranatomy
Fri Feb 01, 2008 2:34 am
da skunk wrote:it's not about playing with younger folkes. i've met many a 20+yr old that was an animal behind there instrument. I also am proud to say i've taught all types of folks from womans self help groups to handicap individuals and believe it or not a three yr old(not mine). and the normal all around students. i've been very blessed to be sorounded by all ages. seriously. 69 the oldest. so let me say i did not understand the jokes i'm just feeling alittle 37 as of jan 13th. my apologies. just seems as if i have insane drive and latter 30 somethins seem to be alittle less driven than me. the younger guys in there 20's seem to love original stuff and no covers. older guys no originals. i'm in the middle i believe i still have a whole lot left as an original musician and have learned that its a whole lot easier to play covers an a casino making 60a yr min. while throwing out cd's of originals. its a frustrating situation. that's what i mean by revolution. do both. what an amazing concept! :idea: :evil:


Not to be contradictory, but I am only 19 and I feel the same way you do when it comes to doing both. I want to do covers and originals in a concert, actually though mainly covers. The reason I choose mainly covers is because I do not want to really go anywhere with it, it is just a hobby to me. But for someone who takes it seriously I can see the concept of wanting to do both, and really get out there with the originals.

Look, you are 37, you are not over your hill, as you have said. Kirk Hammett is 45 (Almost 46) and James Hetfield is like 44, and these guys are still writing. Hey, Joe Perry is 47 and Steven Tyler is 59 (Almost 60). If guys those ages can keep writing and dreaming, then I think we all can. The only thing that makes it rough these days is if you have a family, which is what Irish Anthony was saying. See, that is where being young has its advantages. Not only do young people have more stamina but we do not have a family holding us back.

It is not a bad thing to have family, in fact if I was over 30 I would gladly give up the idea of being a professional musician just so I can be with my family and be a good husband, and father. You can live both dreams, but it would be very hard and not fair to the family.

Your devotion should always to be to your family in my opinion, but never ever give up your instrument, lol. Now I do not want you to be offended or like "This kid is a pest," I am just offering advice. I am that younger generation you are referring to, and I can see what you are talking about. But may I say, we could use some older veterans out there creating music, because our songs suck.

The people of my time cannot write worth of crap. The guy I jam with wrote a piece and I thought it was awesome, and I like my stuff it is rather unique sounding (But I guess everyone says that). However, I have heard some peoples stuff of today and I think to myself "Put down your instruments, go to college and never play again, please." Welcome to the world of music, it's a theme park of doom.

Whatever you choose to do, I wish you luck.

Peace out, GuitarAnatomy.
#20583 by fisherman bob
Fri Feb 01, 2008 4:46 am
people. Just about every teenager to one degree or another goes through a rebellious period always going against their elders. This has always been reflected in music. You hardly ever see anybody over the age of thirty leading a revolution in music. Also us elderly people haven't got as much time on their hands as you young people. We're too busy trying to pay off our credit cards, car payments, mortgages etc. I remember when I was young going out to see bands three to four times a week. Now I have hardly any time to see three to four bands a year. Also us elderly folk haven't got as much brain matter as when we were young. I can't remember anywhere near as much as I used to. Last week for example I forgot the Alamo. Another thing, as I'm getting older I'm getting stiffer, except the one thing I want to be stiff. I believe in the minds of young people the older people are more or less irrelevant. I remember when I was younger I didn't listen to too many older bands. Just my take on this. Later...

#20586 by Guitaranatomy
Fri Feb 01, 2008 5:31 am
Fisherman Bob, I think I am a mutant then, lol. I listen really to older bands, nothing new actually. If you look at my play list it is tons of Metallica, followed by Soundgarden, Pearl Jam, Nirvana, Foo Fighters (Their older stuff more so than the new stuff they keep releasing), The Eagles, Led Zeppelin, Megadeth, Collective Soul, Tool, etc...

The only new stuff I am big on is Coldplay, that is about it for my generations music. Also, I listen to A Perfect Circle, who is broken up now, but was good when they were together.

In sum, I am more into the older stuff.

Peace out, GuitarAnatomy.

#20600 by gbheil
Fri Feb 01, 2008 3:17 pm
Mr da skunk, I,m 47 pushin 48 faster than I care to, half way done raisin 4 kids. Played Bass in a Garage (pronounced "barn" in E Tex) Band in 79
spent the next 20 or so years payin my dues in MMA before that kinda thing was cool. Now, battered out of shape and half lame At suggestion of one of my Gung Fu Sifu I seek renesaunce (How do ya spell that) Been playin 6 strings for about 2 years now and I like it, like it, yes I do. I may not have paid my dues as a musician but Im ready for that revolution. despite that fact I respect musical talent, age indifferent. I stand in awe of people whom can play or sing in the no mind state. My goal is to be one of them. even if I am the only one who notices.
#20620 by neanderpaul
Fri Feb 01, 2008 6:28 pm
da skunk wrote:it's not about playing with younger folkes. i've met many a 20+yr old that was an animal behind there instrument. I also am proud to say i've taught all types of folks from womans self help groups to handicap individuals and believe it or not a three yr old(not mine). and the normal all around students. i've been very blessed to be sorounded by all ages. seriously. 69 the oldest. so let me say i did not understand the jokes i'm just feeling alittle 37 as of jan 13th. my apologies. just seems as if i have insane drive and latter 30 somethins seem to be alittle less driven than me. the younger guys in there 20's seem to love original stuff and no covers. older guys no originals. i'm in the middle i believe i still have a whole lot left as an original musician and have learned that its a whole lot easier to play covers an a casino making 60a yr min. while throwing out cd's of originals. its a frustrating situation. that's what i mean by revolution. do both. what an amazing concept! :idea: :evil:


Da Skunk, Ironically I turned 37 on Jan 10th. I Have been writing songs non stop. I peaked in my twenties at about 10 songs a week. That's writing and recording on 4 track at ten a week. I know write an average of 1 a week. I usually get about 2 a month recorded. I generally agree that most people our age aren't that prolific. Yes that can make the $ playing in casinos, but like I stated in another thread there's no credibility in that. Who cares what other people do? Frankly I like that everybody else does that. It makes me feel cooler being an artist. I like that satisfaction. Here's what I think about being "our age" and staying fresh and creative.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=9_7tgz2J8PU
BTW I have a lovely wife, a daughter that will be 2 in march, and a new one due march 1st. Doesn't take away my creative drive.
#20653 by da skunk
Sat Feb 02, 2008 1:19 am
when were you in nashville if ever you look familiar if thats your pic.

#20655 by HowlinJ
Sat Feb 02, 2008 1:49 am
Hell Skunk,
All us ol' bald boys look alike!

Paul,
Congrats on the up and coming addition!
Seems your "creative drive" is in good order!
#20661 by neanderpaul
Sat Feb 02, 2008 2:36 am
da skunk wrote:when were you in nashville if ever you look familiar if thats your pic.

I lived in murfreesboro in the late 90's. Where is your pic? I rarely forget a face. I played in Nashville a few times. Do you know Laws Rushing, or the Branded Sons? Oh and I ALWAYS wore a handlebar moustache then. Small like the one in my pics on my profile.
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#20663 by neanderpaul
Sat Feb 02, 2008 2:37 am
HowlinJ wrote:Hell Skunk,
All us ol' bald boys look alike!

Paul,
Congrats on the up and coming addition!
Seems your "creative drive" is in good order!

Thank you! Yeah that creative drive is kickin'! :lol: :twisted: :lol:
#20705 by da skunk
Sun Feb 03, 2008 12:05 am
congrats on shooting straihgt. i'm ,at this moment, typing with my right hand and holding my 4 month old daughter with the left. neanderpaul my circles in nashville were Glenn Caruba, Max carl,david johnson, san raphael,mondo pingus,patton james,patrick barber,raul malo no specific order. those aresome of the names i remember. it's been sometime. i also was the gm for pro percussion. i lived in rvivergate for awhile then east nashville then (shelby?)by the airport. i wish i could remember more names . the 90's took about 90% of my brain cells.LOL :twisted:

#20706 by da skunk
Sun Feb 03, 2008 12:07 am
nah not all you bald guys look the same. some polish more than othersLOL :evil:

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