My wife and I just moved after 10 years in the bay area California to Northern NJ to be closer to family and to pursue interests. She's from NJ, whereas I grew up in relatively leisurely, hard working central Ohio.
I've noticed that some (not all) Jerseyians are both a.) extremely caring, down to earth individuals with a deep sense of family and b.) completely self absorbed, rude assholes that will run down a nun. I've actually been told to "f**k off" under the breath of obviously disgruntled diner waitresses for requesting inconvenient things like mustard or my check. On the other hand, my ex-cop neighbor invited me and the wife (heavy metal tattooed freaks) over for Christmas cookies over the holidays.
I'm a tough but slow to anger kinda guy, but I'm consistently shocked at how inconsiderate and oblivious some people are around here. Especially in customer service roles where your business is to just be nice enough to help people buy something.
The musicians I've met have all been cool though!
