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Oh man that really hurt. How can you be so cruel? You are just giving me a whipping.

Tears are just Love leaking out.

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Oooooh that's a tune just waiting to be written..better take that one Klugmo or I will.. lol

I write lyrics too. That stuff runs outa me all the time.[/b]

Breaking down crying during a song for your woman will bond you to her forever - especially if she's a true woman.

The number one most pu**y event for a man is when he won't stand up for his woman when she's being dissed, ESPECIALLY if it's by your friend or friends. If you can't defend your woman's honor then you can't call yourself a man and you don't deserve her.

Chaeya

Breaking down crying during a song for your woman will bond you to her forever - especially if she's a true woman.

The number one most pu**y event for a man is when he won't stand up for his woman when she's being dissed, ESPECIALLY if it's by your friend or friends. If you can't defend your woman's honor then you can't call yourself a man and you don't deserve her.

Chaeya

I have learned over the years to avoid situations well in advance, where dissing might ensue..

MONDAY NIGHT FOOTBALL! !

I've a sadness today. Pervasive, and I've seen enough of the behaviors of the shallow end of the gene pool to last me a life time.

Well put...I just wish the gene pool had a lifeguard...

If I came to your emotional rescue with some sweet emotion would you second that emotion?

Breaking down crying during a song for your woman will bond you to her forever - especially if she's a true woman.

The number one most pu**y event for a man is when he won't stand up for his woman when she's being dissed, ESPECIALLY if it's by your friend or friends. If you can't defend your woman's honor then you can't call yourself a man and you don't deserve her.

Chaeya

There's an opposite side to that coin.. the woman who incites some kind of trouble in public just to "test" her man.. I see that as a game and the last two women who tried that on me ended up learning a hard lesson about my tolerance for BS.

I have stuck up for a woman when it was not a situation intentionally fueled by her.

Breaking down crying during a song for your woman will bond you to her forever - especially if she's a true woman.

The number one most pu**y event for a man is when he won't stand up for his woman when she's being dissed, ESPECIALLY if it's by your friend or friends. If you can't defend your woman's honor then you can't call yourself a man and you don't deserve her.

Chaeya

There's an opposite side to that coin.. the woman who incites some kind of trouble in public just to "test" her man.. I see that as a game and the last two women who tried that on me ended up learning a hard lesson about my tolerance for BS.

I have stuck up for a woman when it was not a situation intentionally fueled by her.

True, but I tend to leave immaturity out of my equation. I had two instances where guys were overstepping their boundaries and my ex was engrossed in himself and ignoring me, he had no idea. Later he asks why didn't I say something. He wasn't anywhere I could find him to say anything to. The first instance, I wound up whipping the guy's ass with my umbrella, but it doesn't work when you're a glutton for pain.

Chaeya

YEAH not fair to intentionally fuel an argument.. wtf bitches. lol

The worst is when they really want to test your meddle and pick a fight with the biggest goon they can find.

(Then you're like "oh this is going to be a long recoup". lol)

lol captain..

Around here, it's no secret that guns in movie theaters is a HUGE problem.. lots o people getting shot for no good reason..

so this girl I was with complained the guy behind her was kicking her seat.. I asked him politely to try avoid doing it.. he was a fairly shifty looking goon.. So 10 minutes later this girl spazzes out (and honestly, my seat was connected, and I felt and saw NOTHING).. the guy is now agitated and she tells me I need to kick his ass..

Well, going to jail or getting shot doesn't seem worth it when moving down the row solves the problem without a physical confrontation. So I pointed to a seat down the row (whole row was empty... ) and told her to sit there, she did, but held it against me all night and for days to come because I didn't "stand up for her". I told her to STFU and if she doesn't like it, there's the door. I SOLVED a problem, and if she didn't shut up about it, I was gonna solve two.

True, but I tend to leave immaturity out of my equation. I had two instances where guys were overstepping their boundaries and my ex was engrossed in himself and ignoring me, he had no idea. Later he asks why didn't I say something. He wasn't anywhere I could find him to say anything to. The first instance, I wound up whipping the guy's ass with my umbrella, but it doesn't work when you're a glutton for pain.

Chaeya

Well like I said- every situation has it's own potential flammable materials attached to it. It seems your problems started when the guy you were with was ignoring you, to the point that you felt or were threatened and you had to defend yourself. That sounds like a situation that could have been solved by way of asskicking from your man, but how would you have felt if I were there and resolved it without an altercation? It's hard for me to really say what I would do as I don't know what really transpired from your description, but in the end, violence should be a last resort, not a standard response.

It's not that I'm afraid of confrontation, hell.. I do security at a strip club sometimes.. it can become necessary, but when it isn't necessary and someone is trying to fuel it into one, I don't blame anyone but the person who is inciting the problem into WW3

Back when Juarez was a safe place to play... I was on a date one night, hand in hand, as we were crossing the bridge back into the states. We had 'walked' over , made our rounds at some of the night clubs and walked back...

About 100 yards from the entry point , some thugs jumped out. One guy had a knife.. Apparently he was offended that I had "bumped" into him back at one of the clubs... Of course I had no recollection of ever seeing him before... Needless to say, my date started mouthing off at these thugs...
Did you know that High heels sound like chalk when they get dragged across a side walk? That's precisely what I heard as I dragged my mouthy girl-freind for about 50 yards yards to the customs agents... Toward the end there, she got a clue, shut her mouth and started to walk as fast as I was walking... with these damn thugs behind us...

I dropped that girl like a bad habit after that...

True, but I tend to leave immaturity out of my equation. I had two instances where guys were overstepping their boundaries and my ex was engrossed in himself and ignoring me, he had no idea. Later he asks why didn't I say something. He wasn't anywhere I could find him to say anything to. The first instance, I wound up whipping the guy's ass with my umbrella, but it doesn't work when you're a glutton for pain.

Chaeya

Well like I said- every situation has it's own potential flammable materials attached to it. It seems your problems started when the guy you were with was ignoring you, to the point that you felt or were threatened and you had to defend yourself. That sounds like a situation that could have been solved by way of asskicking from your man, but how would you have felt if I were there and resolved it without an altercation? It's hard for me to really say what I would do as I don't know what really transpired from your description, but in the end, violence should be a last resort, not a standard response.

It's not that I'm afraid of confrontation, hell.. I do security at a strip club sometimes.. it can become necessary, but when it isn't necessary and someone is trying to fuel it into one, I don't blame anyone but the person who is inciting the problem into WW3

It doesn't have to be a fight. I prefer that it's not. I don't like fights, although sometimes you have to admit, whether a lady is involved or no, some guys just need a good dinging.

Chaeya

True, but I tend to leave immaturity out of my equation. I had two instances where guys were overstepping their boundaries and my ex was engrossed in himself and ignoring me, he had no idea. Later he asks why didn't I say something. He wasn't anywhere I could find him to say anything to. The first instance, I wound up whipping the guy's ass with my umbrella, but it doesn't work when you're a glutton for pain.

Chaeya

Well like I said- every situation has it's own potential flammable materials attached to it. It seems your problems started when the guy you were with was ignoring you, to the point that you felt or were threatened and you had to defend yourself. That sounds like a situation that could have been solved by way of asskicking from your man, but how would you have felt if I were there and resolved it without an altercation? It's hard for me to really say what I would do as I don't know what really transpired from your description, but in the end, violence should be a last resort, not a standard response.

It's not that I'm afraid of confrontation, hell.. I do security at a strip club sometimes.. it can become necessary, but when it isn't necessary and someone is trying to fuel it into one, I don't blame anyone but the person who is inciting the problem into WW3

It doesn't have to be a fight. I prefer that it's not. I don't like fights, although sometimes you have to admit, whether a lady is involved or no, some guys just need a good dinging.

Chaeya

There isn't a day go by that I'm not thinking at least one person in the world needs his ass severely beaten... But then, I realize that I dont live in Afghanistan in a cave...without Guiness... I immediately calm down...