General Music Chat

Started my Chantix yesterday. I was all rady for some wild dreams...but nnnnnnnnnnnooooo!

I was FINALLY sleeping when the frikken alarm went off at 5:30. Then, of course, the snooze-queen was at it again.

Dig this - yesterday, we were fighting about who's fault it all is, as usual, when she suddenly says to me that she wants me to come back & fix her house after the divorce. New windows, new roof.

She said that I am the only contractor she trusts!

I almost sh*t myself. She thinks I'm gonna go through all this just to become her EMPLOYEE?

This bat-shit, crazy psycho bitch still wants me around...but not ":around." I don't think she's done trying to hurt me.

Years ago, she wanted us to separate & start over from scratch. I don't think I wanna go through any of this again...

1. the state of being free or at liberty rather than in confinement or under physical restraint
2. exemption from external control, interference, regulation, etc.
3. the power to determine action without restraint

May you someday find the right person to enjoy it with you.
Cheers!

Like I said on the other site.... GET OUT! Rent a cheap room if you have to but GET OUT! It's not going to suddenly get any better... call a relative whatever but GET OUT! You're driving yourself nuts and just prolonging the inevitable...

Ive been going out with a psycho lately, but shes the first
10 I've ever dated I do give her some slack cause she is
unbelievably hot

I walked away from $14,000 that was legally mine, cuz of promises made.

The judge even tried to talk me out of it.

I may be an idiot, but I'm an honest idiot, with tons of self respect.

And now it's officially over & done with, & I owe no one nothing.

I feel like a crumb though...I thought I'd feel better than this.

No Phil, it takes a few days with the chantix before you know if it will help you stop smoking OR start you on a whole new career of just killing people for the fun of it.

Right now if I was you, I don't think I'd be taking that stuff.

Oh tomorrow is D day plus one. You'll do just fine. You have to fight for freedom. 14 grand. You are joking?

You are just to nice. I think CRIP is right.

Just su..s PERIOD.

Ever hear the term "lose my name and number?" Let her find someone else to fix her house. She just wants to get off cheap, that's what it's all about.

Buh-bye, see ya, don't let the door hit you on your ass on the way out!

You're free, Phil!!!!

Listen, no divorces are easy. I mean, as much as I wanted to get out of mine, it still took an adjustment period, so allow yourselve to grieve. Be gentle on yourself and please don't do what a lot of guys do and start dating right away, really, take some time out for yourself.

Chaeya

Started my Chantix yesterday. I was all rady for some wild dreams..

Yeah dude... Its like others are saying... Just get out of it. And BTW, the offer she made to use you for contract ... It really sounds like she would set you up for a failure on some job and then try to sue you... Simply put , don't do any business of any kind with her... Treat it strictly as a conflict of interest.

My Ex And I one shared a business, and she got 5 other clients to write depositions, stating I had no involvement with the business (This, so as to guard against splitting with me or losing it to me.)

What she did not realize, was that I was happy to give it all to her...with no strings. But, because she was such an ass about it , I took the depositions, rolled them up and poked her in the eye with them during an IRS dispute... HA! She realized then how bad she boned herself! I filed Innocent Spouse relief and cited that I had no involvement with the business during the time in question (With depositions to back it up) , I gained no benefit from the business, , therefore was not liable for any burden. They bought it... and POW! she got slapped with some serious debt. HA ha!! And indeed, my last words were "Buhhh Byahhhh....!

We eventually became civil toward each other (years later)

So the moral of the story...leave, don't look back. If you gotta pine about her, do it with song. The world is a pretty f**k place, but you can create a new Disneyland for yourself... without anybody telling you what rides to build in it...

WELCOME To REAL FREEDOM !! : )

Hang in there Phil!

My only advice is "NO CONTACT!"

A side note, I dont understand women at all, my ex wanted a divorce and went thru with it, took us 5 years to get it all figured out. This past weekend Im in Nashville with my fiancee and son for a trap competition. Sat morning I wake up and the ex had sent a text friday night at 2 am, saying June 25th will always be a special day for me, I hope you are happy, hugz. June 25th would have been our 23 anniversary. If I made her so unhappy, and she wanted out so bad, then why does she remember this date fondly? Come on some of you females on her tell me an answer! I have always acknowledged her birthday, christmas and mothers day. I just felt its the right thing to do, but sat morning I just laughed and deleted the text, didnt respond, rolled over and went back to sleep.

Once again Phil "NO CONTACT" can be your friend at times like these!

Good Luck

Just get a dog. If you already have a dog, get another one. Thank God that He showed me that I'm fit to live with dogs. Naturally, it took a bunch of women for me to appreciate that fact..

Listen, no divorces are easy. I mean, as much as I wanted to get out of mine, it still took an adjustment period, so allow yourselve to grieve. Be gentle on yourself and please don't do what a lot of guys do and start dating right away, really, take some time out for yourself.

Chaeya

Ya know that $14K I walked out on? She's offering to pay it to me for working on her house, now. She still wants me around. I don't get this stuff!

As far as "dating" goes, Chaeya - I don't want to date. I'd really like to get laid, though. It's been 4 1/2 years since I had sex (with another person). I doubt it'd be very good for her, though, since I've been re-virginated & all...Is this TMI or what?


I have GOT to learn to keep my mouth shut!

Listen, no divorces are easy. I mean, as much as I wanted to get out of mine, it still took an adjustment period, so allow yourselve to grieve. Be gentle on yourself and please don't do what a lot of guys do and start dating right away, really, take some time out for yourself.

Chaeya

Ya know that $14K I walked out on? She's offering to pay it to me for working on her house, now. She still wants me around. I don't get this stuff!

As far as "dating" goes, Chaeya - I don't want to date. I'd really like to get laid, though. It's been 4 1/2 years since I had sex (with another person). I doubt it'd be very good for her, though, since I've been re-virginated & all...Is this TMI or what?

Yep TMI Philliam, TMI-TMI-TMI.. lol