KLUGMO wrote:Lets say you're in your 40s-50s and you have a great job and
medical benefits and a wife and home and things that are
supported from your job. Then out of the blue you finally
become musically and commercially viable. It is suggested that you tour.
You have heard and read all the pitfalls associated with finances over
touring monies. It is questionable what you would end up with
considering all the variables. Your heart is pulled in that direction
but your head is saying wake up and smell the cornflakes. First
thought might be get a lawyer. Second thought might be they can be full of sh**t also.
You wouldn't want to end up that fool that lost everything chasing a dream.
You also wouldn't want to miss an opportunity to change your life
for the better.
This is a scenario that I'm sure has befallen a few over time. It is almost
a terrible place and a wonderful place to be at the same time. I'm sure a
lot of trust has to be given out but trust is very risky. Trust manager,
Lawyer, venues and other people that may be spending your money.
Plus, would you be happy? At that age you don't have the energy you
used to have. You probably have grown accustomed to your life as it is now.
Is it all about YOUR happiness at this point?
There would be a lot to think about unless you were a very selfish person.
Just food for thought for those that might be careful what they wish for.
So ... have you ever toured ... would be my first question.
If you haven't, starting to tour at 45 yrs old would be challenging ... it's not as glamorous as is sounds and takes a certain personallity (easy going, sees the silver lining in any situation) to live on the road for any lenght of time.
When I was in my 20's and 30's I toured for over 10 yrs on the road and if you're with the right people, and I mean "IF" it was great. If not it was HELL. I went out on tour with Ike and Tina Turner just before they broke up and it turned from a dream gig to satans hell in a heart beat and I quit the tour after 6 gigs ... it was that bad.
I didn't have a family or any bills or commitments back then, so it was easy. I'm 58 this yr and I go out on short tours for a max of 2 wks 3 or 4 times a yr. and that's enough for me ... Believe me when I say "I'm glad to be home" after the 2 wks, so I can catch up on my sleep and get some decent food in my belly.
If you were single and wanted to see what it was like ... I'd say go for it .... but it sounds like you have a wife and kids and a mortgage ... commitments ... big commitments. What does you wife say?
I still know a lot of hire guns that tour regularly ... but what I have been hearing from them is, there's a lot less work out there, less venues to play and the venues that support live music are paying less .... NOT GOOD
You have to make enough money for meals, hotel rooms, gas, and to pay the rest of the guys in the band ... that's a lot of money for someone that is relatively unknown .... there are bands out there that are "A" bands and have been touring for 10 to 15 yrs that are struggling.
Personally I think someone maybe pulling your chain ... I would check them out thoroughly before I jumped into the deep end.
Maybe take a 2 wks of your holidays at work and put a short tour together and see how it works out ... neanderpaul did something like that a couple of yours ago ... one man show