#17950 by Craig Maxim
Tue Dec 25, 2007 8:54 am
Tue Dec 25, 2007 8:54 am
Craig on this one, you're way out in left field.
Possibly, but only God, Tom and his ex-wife know for sure.
First off, aren't you really projecting by assuming the guy is only after a f**k?
Of course not. If I were projecting, it would mean that I was accusing him of what I was guilty of myself. Women have never been objects to me.
There is nothing in what he posted that said he was only looking for a roll in the hay, was there?
I don't think he is "only" looking for a roll in the hay. I think he screwed his last marriage up out of selfishness, and is now lonely, and wants some chick to play nursing homes with him, and not have to pack up and go home alone afterwards.
You're REALLY reading alot into his intentions.
No I'm not. You're hung up on the fact that I fast-forwarded to the ultimate conclusion, which is sharing a bed. I am quite sure he is not wanting a "relationship" based on sexual abstinence. And I never said he merely wanted one night stands.
Let's not drop the Scarlet A on him as an abuser when we don't even know the guy.
Never said he was an abuser either. What he is, is a selfish guy that has created his own lonliness. You pity him because of his age, and I have the opposite opinion for the very same reason, namely, his age. He's lived long enough to have learned from his mistakes, but I don't think he has. It takes humility to look at your life honestly and admit your faults and work to correct them. A perfect woman for him, is one that does his bidding and worships his "talents". If he could get that, it would "prove" that he has just been misunderstood all along, and is not really responsible for all the bridges he has burned and relationships he has ruined in his life. He is a self-centered person, who wants to be loved and accepted, but is disconnected on an emotional level. He doesn't know how to relate with people in intimate relationships in a real and open way. He has trouble sharing his feelings, and so holds sh*t in, which keeps him disconnected. He relates with people through music. He shares his feelings through music, but doesn't know how to do it in reality, where it counts most. He's angry inside and also very sad and alone.
That's REALLY low class, and something I really don't associate with you.
I don't know about "class" or the lack thereof. I am either an ass that assumes alot of sh*t, or I am really, really good at picking up clues that most people are unaware of.
Possibly, but only God, Tom and his ex-wife know for sure.
First off, aren't you really projecting by assuming the guy is only after a f**k?
Of course not. If I were projecting, it would mean that I was accusing him of what I was guilty of myself. Women have never been objects to me.
There is nothing in what he posted that said he was only looking for a roll in the hay, was there?
I don't think he is "only" looking for a roll in the hay. I think he screwed his last marriage up out of selfishness, and is now lonely, and wants some chick to play nursing homes with him, and not have to pack up and go home alone afterwards.
You're REALLY reading alot into his intentions.
No I'm not. You're hung up on the fact that I fast-forwarded to the ultimate conclusion, which is sharing a bed. I am quite sure he is not wanting a "relationship" based on sexual abstinence. And I never said he merely wanted one night stands.
Let's not drop the Scarlet A on him as an abuser when we don't even know the guy.
Never said he was an abuser either. What he is, is a selfish guy that has created his own lonliness. You pity him because of his age, and I have the opposite opinion for the very same reason, namely, his age. He's lived long enough to have learned from his mistakes, but I don't think he has. It takes humility to look at your life honestly and admit your faults and work to correct them. A perfect woman for him, is one that does his bidding and worships his "talents". If he could get that, it would "prove" that he has just been misunderstood all along, and is not really responsible for all the bridges he has burned and relationships he has ruined in his life. He is a self-centered person, who wants to be loved and accepted, but is disconnected on an emotional level. He doesn't know how to relate with people in intimate relationships in a real and open way. He has trouble sharing his feelings, and so holds sh*t in, which keeps him disconnected. He relates with people through music. He shares his feelings through music, but doesn't know how to do it in reality, where it counts most. He's angry inside and also very sad and alone.
That's REALLY low class, and something I really don't associate with you.
I don't know about "class" or the lack thereof. I am either an ass that assumes alot of sh*t, or I am really, really good at picking up clues that most people are unaware of.