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#17142 by Starfish Scott
Thu Dec 13, 2007 8:00 pm
BOOM CHIKKA WAH WAH lol

#17143 by Guitaranatomy
Thu Dec 13, 2007 8:09 pm
Captain Scott wrote:BOOM CHIKKA WAH WAH lol


Lmao. What the f**k?

#17144 by Starfish Scott
Thu Dec 13, 2007 8:20 pm
That's code for INSERT PORNO MUSIC HERE.. lol

#17151 by Guitaranatomy
Thu Dec 13, 2007 8:46 pm
Lmao.

#17189 by Crip2Nite
Thu Dec 13, 2007 10:04 pm
I like boobies :mrgreen: .....any takers???

#17199 by Irminsul
Thu Dec 13, 2007 10:10 pm
I think if you take the nasty out of a dating service, well, you sorta make the thing moot.

Just a hint!
#17931 by Guitaranatomy
Tue Dec 25, 2007 2:02 am
http://bandmix.ca/Thomas1 wrote:Well I tried to start a place for musicians to meet, but a few immature
dorks leave rude remarks, so I give up.
Way to go ass holes !


Hey, don't give up man. It is a good idea. I like it. Of course it is useless to me, I am too young, lol. I will just join a band and get a girl. *Shrug*

But, I think it is still a great idea. Just ignore the stupid commentary that people leave. Keep trying. I think it would be very helpful.

By the way, Merry Christmas, man.

Peace out, GuitarAnatomy.
#17932 by Craig Maxim
Tue Dec 25, 2007 2:04 am
http://bandmix.ca/Thomas1 wrote:Well I tried to start a place for musicians to meet, but a few immature
dorks leave rude remarks, so I give up.
Way to go ass holes !


Before you start slinging the "asshole" labels around, you may want to think how your sig line comes across. It basically says...

I need a female lead singer that will front my band and let me f**k her too!

Not exactly classy.

#17934 by Irminsul
Tue Dec 25, 2007 2:19 am
Come on you guys, don't be so hard on him. There are lots of musicians out there looking for a kindred spirit as a romance mate as well. Personally I'd be pissed if I wanted to start a site and a bunch of jackasses signed up just to use at as their personal urinal, too.

Have a little compassion.

#17935 by Guitaranatomy
Tue Dec 25, 2007 2:27 am
Irminsul wrote:Come on you guys, don't be so hard on him. There are lots of musicians out there looking for a kindred spirit as a romance mate as well. Personally I'd be pissed if I wanted to start a site and a bunch of jackasses signed up just to use at as their personal urinal, too.

Have a little compassion.



Yeah, I agree, Irminsul. I would be mad as well. I can see what Craig is saying about the signature coming across wrong, in a way. However, it depends on who is reading that that it is interpreted that way. Everyone is different with things.

Class can only be judged in how a man treats a woman, so unless the signature outright says something improper, then we cannot start judging.

You now, I will show you scum. I was at a bar/restaurant the other day, and this guy keeps groping his girlfriend. He would not leave her be, just kept on doing that. She told him to stop I think 4 times (I could see it by how her lips moved, I could not hear them). She pushed him away and finally got pissed and took off from him. Then the guy just walks up and leaves with his friend, does not apologize or anything.

So, that will show you a classless piece of crap. I believe in treating women with the utmost respect. That is how I was raised, that is how I think. Many guys these days have no manners.

At any rate, just expressing my view point. I mean no offense to anyone with my replies.

Peace out, GuitarAnatomy.

#17938 by Craig Maxim
Tue Dec 25, 2007 4:06 am
Irminsul wrote: Come on you guys, don't be so hard on him. There are lots of musicians out there looking for a kindred spirit as a romance mate as well. Personally I'd be pissed if I wanted to start a site and a bunch of jackasses signed up just to use at as their personal urinal, too.

Have a little compassion.



I'm looking for a singer to start a band with, that wants to date me too?

Come on. How bizarre is that?

It's ridiculous.

Is any singer going to be interested in that? Does she try and join up and jam, knowng he's waiting for the other shoe to drop at any moment?

Or does someone that is looking for a relationship decide not to show interest because she can't sing? So she doesn't respond at all?

It's ridiculous.

What he should do instead, is to join a dating site, and include "shared love of creating music a plus"

Or something to that effect.

But he is in effect posting a job opening for a singer. You don't put that you want to screw her too, in the same damn sentence. What if it was an ad for charity work, with a proviso stating "only single females who are looking for relationships with the charity president should apply"

Would you see it the same way then? But because it is a "band" it is ok?

Pick one or the other. But don't insult a woman by suggesting you need a good singer that likes to f**k the band leader too.

I'd be pretty amazed if any woman responded favorably to that sig line.

Auditions can be stressful. Blind dates can be stressful. This guy is seriously going to try and combine the two? She has to measure up as a singer -AND- a potential mate, AT THE SAME TIME????

Maybe this guy is innocent in his little pitch (which I doubt) but seriously, it was not well thought out.

Then to blame some flamers for his lack of success in finding a date who can carry a tune in a nursing home too?

His own sig-line doomed him. Not some flamers.

btw...

Dude if you are reading this, a simple google search turned this site up. Give it a try, and leave this site to serious inquiries concerning artists, that show some measure of respect.

http://www.singleartistdating.com/

And upon further thought... how many of you guys just a few threads back were bemoaning having relationships within the band? That it was detrimental to the couple, as well as the band. How quickly we forget. LOL
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#17939 by Craig Maxim
Tue Dec 25, 2007 4:27 am
Guitaranatomy wrote:
I believe in treating women with the utmost respect. That is how I was raised, that is how I think. Many guys these days have no manners.



That is precisely what pissed me off about this guy's classless appeal for a singer he can bang as well.

I put it in stark terms, because that is what he is really saying.

Whether he intended it or not, he displays a huge lack of respect for women.

I think that this bothers me in particular because of something I read several years back. It is a statistic I read one time, and I have never been able to shake it.

It has bothered me ever since....

The UNFPA (2002) reports that more than 60 percent of women worldwide have been abused at some point in their life.

Think about that statistic for a moment.

Everyone reading this comment, owes his or her life, to a woman sharing her body for the purpose of giving you life. She ate for you, drank for you, breathed for you, endured many months of pain, all for the sake of giving you life. Now, how many of the men who were the beneficiaries of such sacrifice by a woman, went on, later in life, to be guilty of a role in the above statistic? Very, very many, as is evidenced by the enormity of that number.

#17942 by Guitaranatomy
Tue Dec 25, 2007 6:21 am
Craig Maxim wrote:
Guitaranatomy wrote:
I believe in treating women with the utmost respect. That is how I was raised, that is how I think. Many guys these days have no manners.



That is precisely what pissed me off about this guy's classless appeal for a singer he can bang as well.

I put it in stark terms, because that is what he is really saying.

Whether he intended it or not, he displays a huge lack of respect for women.

I think that this bothers me in particular because of something I read several years back. It is a statistic I read one time, and I have never been able to shake it.

It has bothered me ever since....

The UNFPA (2002) reports that more than 60 percent of women worldwide have been abused at some point in their life.

Think about that statistic for a moment.

Everyone reading this comment, owes his or her life, to a woman sharing her body for the purpose of giving you life. She ate for you, drank for you, breathed for you, endured many months of pain, all for the sake of giving you life. Now, how many of the men who were the beneficiaries of such sacrifice by a woman, went on, later in life, to be guilty of a role in the above statistic? Very, very many, as is evidenced by the enormity of that number.



Hmm... You are right that we do forget what we said about relationships in a band, it is not smart. However, I do not mind the idea of just trying to find someone on here to date. Maybe he should change the sig so it does not come off as "suggestive." That way all things are equal.

But, yes, that is a scary statistic. We live in a strange world. I think we owe women respect for more reasons other than just because they carried us till term and gave birth to us. Now, I do not express my emotions on this subject too often, however, this calls for it.

Women are like flowers, they are gentle, fragile, and very beautiful. When we neglect a flower it tends to either die or fall apart. Well, same with a woman, just not as literal. When we treat a woman poorly it breaks her heart, now I know we would not like it if a woman did that to us. My hearts been snapped already once, I just got out of a 2 and a half year f*cking relationship 6 months ago. I still cannot let it go that well. Now I have many regrets in things that I could have done different, but now I cannot, it is too late. However, despite this, it was for the best because I need to see what it is like to date more than just one person for my whole life. I was very attached to her, she meant a lot to me. You know how many bloody sleepless nights I had? Sitting there in remorse?

So yes, that will show I am not a stupid kid just commenting on this subject. I know enough for my age, I have seen enough for now. Men who mistreat women should have their asses kicked. Especially, and I mean especially... Violent men. A man who hits a women should have his hand put into a crusher and broken in every spot. Through science (And general sight) we can easily see who is genetically the stronger gender. Some men are so strong it is scary, you imagine a guy over 6' and 200+ lbs. hitting his wife who is 5'-3" 120 lbs.? Welcome to Hell.

Thomas1's intent was not to be rude, I think it was accidental that it was phrased that way and comes off that way. Maybe he feels different about relationships in a band than we do, if that is so then it is not our place to sit and dictate that to him. He is entitled to his feelings and beliefs. I agree with the aspect of having some where where people who love music (And looking for a date) can chat on here, it would be nice. I would love to meet a girl who was a musician of some form. I do not think I would need the internet though, I can do that in person. Heck, I would love to meet a girl right now, lol. Could use a date.

Well, at least my opinions are understood. It is the holidays, I am posting this at 1:22am, so it is Christmas. Best not to get controversial for one day of the year. All points stand, I think we all can understand where the other is coming from. So, everyone relax, and let us have a nice Christmas. Open some nice gifts, spend time with our families, and just be plan old happy.

Peace out people, GuitarAnatomy.

#17944 by Irminsul
Tue Dec 25, 2007 6:40 am
Craig on this one, you're way out in left field.

First off, aren't you really projecting by assuming the guy is only after a f**k? There is nothing in what he posted that said he was only looking for a roll in the hay, was there? He said "possible romance", not "all I want is to sink the pink and then you can hit the door, bitch".

You're REALLY reading alot into his intentions.

Not everyone has the same idea of "romance" as you might, or I might. Judging from his picture and likely age, he comes from a different time - one when there were alot more social conventions going on about what was proper when it came to relations between a man and a woman. If he had been in his 20s, I would be thinking his intentions were alot more...shall we say....of the belly. But I don't get that impression from this guy.

So step back a bit and see if you aren't reading a whole bunch of stuff into his intentions. Let's not drop the Scarlet A on him as an abuser when we don't even know the guy. That's REALLY low class, and something I really don't associate with you.

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