everyone has their own definition of what a "real musician" is.....and i'm no exception.
my definition of a "real musician" goes something like this..... a real musician plays music for the LOVE OF PLAYING MUSIC. and a real musician SHARES his music for the love of sharing their music.
i don't play music or rate my worth and value by who I believe myself to be "better" than. (as if such a thing COULD be measured). nor do i judge my musical "success" by how many views, shares, or units i'm moving.
for some, music is just another way to compete....
MY music is BETTER than your's... or...
let's have a CONTEST to see who's the better player. gimme a break.
obsessing on that silliness? ....that mindset reeks of insecurity to me. just be happy with where you're at, that you have the world of music to enjoy and share with others, and leave the petty and childish competition BS aside.
don't measure YOUR worth as a musician by who you believe yourself to be "better" than.
the only person i'm "competing" against is MYSELF. improving my skills...both playing and writing is of paramount importance to me. I work hard at that and take it very seriously....because i AM a competitive person...with MYSELF when it comes to music.
i worry not one iota and waste zero time obsessing over who I can play better than. or how my tunes stack up against anyone else's.