Musical Monogamy

I took a long break from music and two things I really noticed after a 15 year layoff:
1) Clubs paid $300 a night are STILL paying $300 a night
2) Many musicians (typically bass/drums) play in multiple bands.
#1 is simple (not easy) to address, you just have to change your circuit and market to it.
#2 is tough if you're in a busy band and your bassist is in another busy band. We had to use some online Calendar app to ensure people were available when we booked. Around xmas time it got to be a real race and both of his bands lost gigs to the other.
It didn't help that the guy didn't work (so he had time) and didn't seem to come in prepared, and even would listen to the other band's songs on break and practice them.
I understand we all want to gig, but if you're in a band that tries hard to market themselves as something different (we were a country/classic rock band) and your guy is unprepared, it holds you back.
I guess the preference is either casual gigs with a "that's good enough" mentality, or a polished act that can get to the next level.
Thoughts?
Spencer
1) Clubs paid $300 a night are STILL paying $300 a night
2) Many musicians (typically bass/drums) play in multiple bands.
#1 is simple (not easy) to address, you just have to change your circuit and market to it.
#2 is tough if you're in a busy band and your bassist is in another busy band. We had to use some online Calendar app to ensure people were available when we booked. Around xmas time it got to be a real race and both of his bands lost gigs to the other.
It didn't help that the guy didn't work (so he had time) and didn't seem to come in prepared, and even would listen to the other band's songs on break and practice them.
I understand we all want to gig, but if you're in a band that tries hard to market themselves as something different (we were a country/classic rock band) and your guy is unprepared, it holds you back.
I guess the preference is either casual gigs with a "that's good enough" mentality, or a polished act that can get to the next level.
Thoughts?
Spencer