Dayne Nobody IV wrote:I studied psychology both abnormal and normal strains of it, and when a guy has to come back 10 days later to comment about something, making innuendos and speculating about drawing crowds to a gig, I am highly suspect about said intentions, something psychologically is amiss with these guys posts, something underlying in the current is bothering their psyches and I do not think for a minute the issue is out of tune guitars. it's something else ..go back and listen again to the 59 second clip..
yeah....i'm sure there are others who would concur......"psychology" IS at play here. just maybe consider that instead of pointing fingers elsewhere, you might look at your "psychology".
maybe ask yourself why you so quickly and easily jumped to the conclusion that everyone who pointed out your intonation issues did so to put you down, or out of pettiness and jealousy.
i KNOW that wasn't MY motivation, and knowing others here as well as is possible thru this medium i seriously doubt that was anyone else's motivation either.
i pointed out your bad intonation w the intention of helping you out as one musician/friend to another. and i've little doubt that's where everyone else was coming from as well. but instead of seeing that for what it was you dug in and went all batshit.
i'm a competitive person in many areas....music ain't one of them. i don't measure my skills against your's, or anyone else here on the board. or anywhere. i just don't view instrumental and writing chops as a "competition". the only musician i'm in competition is myself.
but i know from past exp that you appear to be very competitive in that regard as you've challenged me and others to musical contests and feats of strength.
Since you brought up this whole "psychology" thing....I can't help wonder if THAT competitive "psychology" of your's is what caused you to dig in your heels, at first refusing to acknowledge any tuning problems, and then later taking what was meant as constructive criticism as personal slights.
another way to look at it......when someone comes up to you and points out that your fly is open....do you take it as they're trying to embarrass you? or.... that they are trying to save you FURTHER embarrassment?
perspective and attitude (and "psychology)...it's what's fer dinner!