Cajundaddy wrote:
Long term relationships with organizations that continue to pay us well is more important to me than any single night. I really try to not take this stuff personally and avoid burning bridges at all cost.
Good word, Dave. Actually you can use a situation like this to your benefit....especially if you play Hungarian polka!
If you're cool about it, and let them know that you're disappointed, but totally understand that stuff happens, they might bend over backwards to make up for it in the future. It's always good to remember that we're ALL in the music biz together. Most clubs that have live music could do something else that wouldn't be as much hassle. They have live music because they like live music...but they don't owe you anything until you've shown them you care about their business.
Treat 'em like friends and it might pay off in spades. Treat 'em like jerks and that's all your gonna get from them.