Lynard
With all due respect, and you know I got respect for ya now...I do believe its not necessary to kick folks below the belt just to make a point... Hell , I thinks its not necessary to kick anybody anywhere at all.
I would kindly ask, as one forum buddy to another, to consider that it might be better to make amends with Jeff, maybe see it his way about the wife shot...
We both know from experience, that its not good on the conscience...to bear the hate and contempt... I contend that we are all essentially good folk... nobody here deserved the thrashings we all deal out...
Today, I made amends with a surly marine at work, whom I had a confrontation with 6 months ago... I made the first move and gave him a long overdue apology... He gracefully accepted, and now were drinkin buds again.

My point being, I feel like a great weight has been lifted and I am digging the peace for real...
What do ya say fellas... ?