"Please do tell us about a band memeber that you feel has their head in their ars. "
I can't memember any band memeber that was a big PIA.
I just ignored the small squabbles for the most part and kept on keepin on with the music. Folks just never have much contention directed my way. I showed up on time, I made them sound good the best I could (At least better than they did without me) I listened and paid close attention to what the other musicians were doing, and for the most part I played my heart out. No one ever told me they had a problem with me, and even though they would occasionally squabble amongst themselves, I ignored it and picked and grinned most the night long.
So I guess the short answer is if it ain't directed towards you, just blow it off and "just get on down with your own bad self" .
