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Just checking in to see how you're doing. Getting cut is rough, I've had three operations on my lower abdomen and numerous gum surgeries. With today's more exacting surgeries you should be healing faster hopefully. Hopefully all the prayers are working...

I'm ok thanks Bob. My elbow is in a cast and sling. It hurts but I'll be ok.

The vasectomy was a nightmare. I felt most of it. Including one of the cauterizing spots. I told him the whole time "I feel that", "it hurts", "you're killing me", It feels like truck is on my stuff". I screamed, spasmed, wept, and bit down on my hat until I could bite no longer. I hallucinated for a brief second and almost passed out. He couldn't get me numb. I was literally in shock. Shivering, couldn't talk, couldn't look at the doctor or the nurse. It was the most horrific thing I've ever experienced. I wept for half an hour afterward. I couldn't sleep last night. I prayed myself to sleep. I am psychologically scarred. I warned him that I metabolize medication fast. That the dentist has to give me extra Novocaine and that halfway through I start feeling it and he has to dose me again. I had a cyst removed from my back last year and it was the same thing with Lidocaine - give me extra and dose me halfway through. But they were able to numb me - eventually. He never got me numb. It was 30 minutes of agonizing torture. And it's not like I'm a junky with a tolerance. I don't take ANY meds, drugs, or even alcohol.... ever!! Afterward he told me it doesn't usually go like that. I said "I'm sure it doesn't!" Thinking to myself that if it did NO ONE would have it done. He said in the future anytime a doctor wants to give me local anesthesia I should insist on general. I am torn. I want to ask him or his boss what happened. But I also want to put it behind me. He comes highly recommended. Especially for his compassion. I am still in disbelief. I don't know what went wrong.

OH crap man ... that just hurts me too.
Damn sorry you had to go through all that.

It was essentially a vasectomy with no anesthesia.

OHH stop it ... damn your killin me.

I'm not playing, joking, or exaggerating. I wish I was.

Man that's horrible. Makes me hurt just thinking about it.

Hope it all heals well bro.

Thanks, I'm actually fine now. Other than psychologically. Very little pain from it now. Now I know what pain actually is.... unfortunately.

Abstinance may have been a better choice in retrospect...

fisherman bob wrote:Abstinance may have been a better choice in retrospect...

If he keeps up his hate campaign, I hope his nuts atrophy and fall off.

Mike Nobody wrote:

fisherman bob wrote:Abstinance may have been a better choice in retrospect...

If he keeps up his hate campaign, I hope his nuts atrophy and fall off.

mike there's always the IGNORE button...

Mike won't answer this because he has the only working ignore button. Mike you are one SICK puppy to wish that any one has their body parts fall off.

Mike if you knew a tiny bit more about Paul, you would come to understand what a truly loving person was about.

Mike, you really do need to find some help. You rant about about depression and general darkness. This site is not prepared to deal with someone with your problems.

I hope you read this because I have no way to help you ,except to say a prayer, and I hope many others join in.

Sorry if I attacked you, I didn't realize how much you were hurting.

Paul, I hope you feel better.

Mike Nobody wrote:

fisherman bob wrote:Abstinance may have been a better choice in retrospect...

If he keeps up his hate campaign, I hope his nuts atrophy and fall off.

You still haven't been able to quote a single example of my hate.

GlenJ wrote:Sorry if I attacked you, I didn't realize how much you were hurting.

That's the first decent thing you've said since I've been here.

As for what I said about Paul's nether-regions. Sorry about that. He has me on ignore and wouldn't have seen it had Bob not quoted it. But, I did add the qualifier "if he doesn't stop his hate campaign." He may be a great guy to friends and family. But, not to me. So, I have to go by what he gives me. Same for anyone. Things were fairly quiet for a couple of weeks and then this sh*t starts up again, WTF? The "ignore" button should have settled it. For future reference, folks shouldn't quote what they know will piss off those ignoring somebody. It kind of defeats the purpose.

I actually hope Paul feels better, and maybe comes back in a better mood.