chipfryer wrote:
Actually this was a great place once. (Forum).
I've been here longer than you.
I've been here longer than Ratsass too.
Ratsass said the same thing...
"The forum USED TO BE a great place before you got here!"
But he didn't know... I
WAS HERE (before I got here) LOL
I had taken a break. And guess what?
Before Ratsass got here (when I was on break) there were people who did nothing but flame one another. EVERY OTHER THREAD! In fact, our own Capt. was one of them. You should have seen the way he put people down, even women, for every damn thing you can imagine... going for the jugular like a wildcat!
He would tell people their music sucked and they sucked too!
They would tell him the same sh*t back.
THEY NEVER GOT TIRED OF IT!
Like hemorrhoids, he still flares up once in a while.

He and John went at it just awhile back, threatening to kick each other's asses (all online, as usual)
I poured my heart out to the Capt way back then, about his abrasiveness, and I can't know, but I'd like to think it helped calm him down a little, cause he did calm down for a long while, But he's his own man, so only he knows why he had a little change of heart. Regardless, he's part of the community, and we all dealt with it fine, either way.
Forums are what they are.
If you think that heated discussions on forums are something unusual, then you have not been on the Internet long. Because that is NORMAL where there are regular, active participants.
This place is WAY MILD where that stuff is concerned. Which is cool, and part of the reason I like it... not to mention that I have known some of these people for 3 or 4 years now.
But the statement...
"THIS
USED TO BE A NICE PLACE"
There is no such thing as "used to be" because before YOUR "used to be" (when you got here) it "used to be" something else... and before that, it "used to be" something else again.
It is a forum, like all forums, where some people come and go, and where others are old timers who have been around for ALL the coming and going.
What makes this
NOT a nice place?
I try to be nice to people as much as possible.
Don't you?
We all forgive each other when we flub up once in awhile.
But, believe it or not... IT IS possible to have serious heated conversations on one thread, and then flip threads and joke about tits with Crip!
Is it supposed to be "tits only"?
If the subject matter bothers you personally, why does that mean EVERYONE ELSE has to stop talking about them?
Cause I don't get that!
Can you explain it?