Kramerguy wrote:
Unfortunately for me, phrasing can't be taught. I really need help in that department. I pulled down the soloing demo I did cause after I listened back, I realized how piss-poor the phrasing was. 
I learned from Iron Maiden --- breakyour solos into digestable blocks. Play a lick or run, let it sink in with the listener, play another.
David Gilmour does this to an even greater degree.
I learned from Vai and Santana --- Hold a conversation. Let the single notes be your voice. Kind of ties into the digestable blocks idea.
If someone never stops talking, and there are constant words a flowing, I tune them right out.
So talk. Sing 'mother F'er' in your head, then try to play it like you sang it in your head on the guitar. (thanks Santana).
Little excercise that has nothing to do with scales or modes:
(Not mine -- From a Satriani article a loong time ago. i think he got it from some jazz cats)
Play a note on your guitar. Now try to sing that note. Match it as close as you can.
Play another note, pause, sing that note. Etc.
After youve been doing that for awhile, turn the process around --
Sing a note. Find the note on your guitar, and play it. Repeat.
The more you do it, the less time it takes to sing a note, find it on the guitar, and play it. Or vice versa.
Why all of this madness??
1) It will help your ear quite a bit.
2) It will help you to become a passable singer if you are borderline.
3) You can reach a point where you dont worry so much about scales and modes, and move into the world of 'Sing it your head, play it on guitar'.
I dont think there are better examples of phrasing than conversation or singing a random tune.
Of course, I'm no lead guitar wiz or anything. But this stuff has helped me.
I'll revisit the Modes thing later.