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#249456 by t-Roy and The Smoking Section
Tue Nov 03, 2015 2:16 pm
Started playing professionally in 1975, by '77 was playing 6 nights a week with a house gig in Beaumont TX for 3 years. I was the oldest in that band and we all needed parental releases to be in the bar that we played.

Hooked up with a country band just to leave town and experience touring. Only took a year before I had lost my self-respect and moved to the big city to start a rock band and go further. Practiced or played almost every night during the 80s, and then quit playing professionally in January 1990 to raise a family, but was asked to help the music team in the congregation I had joined so it's not like I didn't play anymore at all. During those days I started writing a new kind of music and began developing a new genre. It didn't matter that only a very very small audience liked that genre since I wasn't trying to book myself anymore. I wrote for the pure pleasure of creating something new.

For the next five years, I played in my home congregation as a service to others. No consideration or desire for money. My wife wasn't through with the rock n roll lifestyle and left...then I became a single dad with 4 little kids and even quit playing at the congregation. For a few months in early 1994, I went out to prove that I could still rock, and after a couple of months remembered why I had stopped doing that years earlier.

I was done....but I never stopped writing.

A few years later I remarried and the "new and improved" Mrs Pearce encouraged me to do something with the songs I had been writing, so I went into a studio in 1997 and recorded an album with studio musicians who did what I asked of them, and had no musical limitations of band members. Then I started putting a band together, but ended up with a band that could not play the album so I wrote and recorded a different album with them. That band flaked out as soon as we started seeing some success and fell apart, but I finally found musicians that could play the first album. Only 4 months after it came out, those musicians also flaked out by making impossible demands about where we could/couldn't play. So I quit again...

I've "retired" from music 3 times since 1990.

As my last "hurrah" I decided to do a dance project (half techno, half rock) and bring it dance clubs in Israel. MY timing was impeccable to start that at the same time as the second intifada, where terrorists were blowing up dance clubs. Almost killed 3 times in 6 days, I got home from that and retired again. Ya know...still playing at my home congregation but no ambition for a band anymore.

A former CBS reporter that I met in Israel wrote a story about some crazy goy almost getting blown up in the dance club scene, and a record company found me and offered a deal. After I ignored them for about a year, I did finally sign. They re-recorded a few songs, remixed, and remastered that album to come out in Oct 2002.

But those flaky musicians I used to play with raised their demands. Instead of $75 each minimum per gig, they wanted $250 each....so I went solo.

That was when I knew what had been sucking all my energy and ambition for the previous 20 years. Dealing with musicians and all the drama that comes with it had taken the joy (and profit) out of playing live. Once that was not a factor, I was making more as a musician than as the owner of 2 locksmithing business, and went full time in 2004.

I'm on the road about 300 days of a year since 2005. For 20-25% of a year I'm in a foreign country....today I'm looking out the window of a Royal Carribbean cruise line in Cococay, Bahamas. I'm doing a 30 minute set tomorrow night on the boat but got a week long cruise with my wife out of it. Ahhh....

Yet I'm pretty sure that this season of my life is almost over. I'll probably continue to play until a transition is complete but I've now gone into film-making. My first film released with no fanfare or promotion last Wednesday, and before Friday was over we had secured licensing in South Korea and found distribution in America through an App on the Samsung Gear One (comes out in December)

So to sum it up....over the last 40+ years I go through many seasons where my interests have changed, but I can't figure out how to stop being a musician/singer/songwriter because it is who I am, whether I want it or not.

I once went 5 years without writing a song and then wrote 15 songs in a day. My advice for anyone going through a slump is to quit trying. Change the scenery, go live life and let those experiences become part of your being. You need to draw inspiration from things outside of a music career to be able to relate to others.

If you have paid the dues to know how to write a song, then just let it come to you whenever it happens without trying to force it. And if life offers something more interesting then follow that path...it will eventually come full circle.

If you are a musician, then nothing changes that even if you aren't playing for now.
#249481 by MikeTalbot
Wed Nov 04, 2015 2:29 am
Yep. Inspiring. Single father with four kids sounds like a nightmare.
btw Ted - I'm on tap to replace church bass player for Christmas stuff - he's very sick and I'm sure an old metal head like me can play "Joy to the World."

The common thread in these posts does seem to be women. I wrote a song I thought my ex would like and she mocked it, saying "That's just more of that sick sh*t you like so much."
I explained to her that if Beethoven had been married (and honestly, I wasn't sure) there would be no "Ode to Joy!"

I dodged a bullet years before when fiance changed from loving my work with the band to telling me where I could 'store' my amps. Wrong! 8)

Talbot
#249488 by t-Roy and The Smoking Section
Wed Nov 04, 2015 4:39 am
MikeTalbot wrote:I explained to her that if Beethoven had been married (and honestly, I wasn't sure) there would be no "Ode to Joy!"


Talbot




ha! my wife got a good laugh out of that one...

Thanks for the kind remarks, Jeff and Talbot. Those kids are all grown up now and productive members of society. It was worth putting my "career" on hold for a few years to give them a chance, and had 2 kids more with my new wife. We've been together 20 years now...wow time flies.

The oldest two boys became my band in their late 20s. We toured for a year and a half together, twice to Europe, in 2008-2009. It was the most fun I've ever had in my entire life. We made so much money that year from all the girls and old ladies who wanted to talk to my good looking boys....and we blew a fortune having fun together all over the world.

Now I'm in business with them on the VR films, and the future is once again very exciting.





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#249885 by Dan1
Tue Nov 10, 2015 11:54 pm
Waiting to start my 3rd year of high school, my folks moved to another state. I was working my summer away at my sisters business in another state. They moved and then said "there's no room for those drums in the new house". I had taken them with me to practice all summer. I had to leave them behind to be sold. At least I came to the new house at the end of summer and had bought a Sears Silvertone twin 12, and a E355 copy guitar. There ! Take that I figured. I actually could play a bit, after taking the odd lesson while in bands at previous address.

Fast forward to 2003, some 33 odd years later. Answered an ad at music store to play guitar in a band. They said " we need a drummer", so I borrowed a kit from a friend and did the audition. Was hoping it would be like riding a bike as they say. Pasted the audition while we "rehearsed/auditioned" live at the bands friends restaurant. (ya..shocked me too). 3 weeks into doing that every Saturday night, we were offered $, food, and drinks..all to be the "House Band". We did that for 9 months solid, and other gigs with that band. Moved to Texas, and here I am still playing drums for some 13 odd years non stop ! 2 to 4 gigs a week average. Still think about Dad and say "take that" with a chuckle :lol:
#250566 by DainNobody
Tue Nov 24, 2015 4:36 pm
after listening to Bieber, ariana, Pitbull and the like I realized my inadequacy, and it psychologically damaged me enough to give up 8)
#250633 by schmedidiah
Wed Nov 25, 2015 1:24 pm
I drifted away from my guitar and bass and drums....
I was working up to 70 hours a week. My drummer friend from high school finally started to get his act together for a while. I was working less hours as the economy plunged. We started jamming and I was actually writing my own songs. I had never been able to come up with more than a riff here or there. I was getting better at garage rock, as opposed to wannabe thrash metal. I bought a new drum kit and rented a rehearsal space. We starting recording every note we played and I developed my songwriting skills to the point that I made up some songs on the spot that I still play to this day. The drummer eventually flaked off and I took it pretty hard. I finally found some new drummers to play with. I might even try gigging soon. Never done that.
#251471 by RGMixProject
Thu Dec 10, 2015 3:52 am
My interest's have never changed. I just went back under water.

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however, I think I can still smoke the drums....
check it out, what do you think?
https://soundcloud.com/richard-p-gose/a ... titledsong

https://soundcloud.com/richard-p-gose
#251476 by schmedidiah
Thu Dec 10, 2015 12:44 pm
That's a quality drum take, but the recording is mixed so thin.
Come on. Crank it! :x
#251483 by RGMixProject
Thu Dec 10, 2015 2:01 pm
schmedidiah wrote:That's a quality drum take, but the recording is mixed so thin.
Come on. Crank it! :x


Thanks...that's why I'm still under water :D

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