What can I say?
'Twas a strange trip indeed.
I was pretty lucky, both on the way down, & the way back. Cops were pulling ppl in front of me over while I was speeding plenty fast, & they sped right past me to do so. That felt weird.
The wife's grandma is in this big old folks warehouse of a compound, where they hold ppl until they're ready for the nursing home. Neat little aptmts in a sprawling 9-story mini-metropolis, complete with grocery store, several restaurants, game rooms, computer set-ups for the residents, even a movie theater. Ambulances on site (& used daily). It's all very nifty, in a sad sorta way, & they are making gazillions hand over fist from the residents & their families. They also have an armed gatekeeper. It was really pretty impressive, & I am sure she's making new friends there, which is a huge plus.
This lil 92-yr old woman still owns 2 houses, & gets around fairly well.
I have learned to have a whole nuther level of disrespect for some relatives, too, as they advised my son to do things for her for "brownie points," right in front of her! Family in-fighting at times like this is so tawdry, & I refuse to engage. Let 'em get all the brownie points they want, while they trash each other (& me) in hopes of hitting the big time when she passes. Sick, I tell ya.
My son had to return early, cuz he had to work yesterday, so he left the boy with us & split. He got about a mile from here & hit a deer, of course. Air bags deployed. Windshield busted. I haven't been out to look at the damage yet, but it didn't look great when I passed it on the way in last night. I'm glad Jace was with us!
Jace was a real joy on this trip (which was WAY cool, cuz he can be a real problem when he wants to be!), engaging everyone he saw, smiling all the time & giggling & shreaking with glee.
The feast, of course, was awkward, as ppl who normally wouldn't be caught dead in each others' company tried to engage & play catch up. I still could hardly hear, which made things downright humorous at times as I misunderstood them. I did feel like I fit in with the morning's sacred "pill-popping rituals" as I took my few meds for my ears, & the rest of the folks took their multiples of stuff for various ailments...LOL
I also managed to fix some stuff for the elderly woman, in spite of the other family members horning in & trying to outdo me in the good deeds dept for brownie points. Man, that was really disturbingly annoying, in a funny yet sick sit-com kinda way.
The wife's cousin married a musician, & I actually got to talk with him alone for about 3 minutes. He's in a kick-butt band of older guys who play out & make some really good money. I like that guy & wish I could spend a lil more time with him, but things are always so frantic whenever we visit, thanks to certain ppl who will remain nameless (the brownie-pointers). I think maybe one day I will just hop in the car & visit some of them without making plans, to get to be with the ones I like, while avoiding the others. (Of course, if I ever did this, they would be oh so offended that I didn't let them run me around & ruin everything I wanna do.)
Ya gotta love the family politics.
'Twas a strange trip indeed.
I was pretty lucky, both on the way down, & the way back. Cops were pulling ppl in front of me over while I was speeding plenty fast, & they sped right past me to do so. That felt weird.
The wife's grandma is in this big old folks warehouse of a compound, where they hold ppl until they're ready for the nursing home. Neat little aptmts in a sprawling 9-story mini-metropolis, complete with grocery store, several restaurants, game rooms, computer set-ups for the residents, even a movie theater. Ambulances on site (& used daily). It's all very nifty, in a sad sorta way, & they are making gazillions hand over fist from the residents & their families. They also have an armed gatekeeper. It was really pretty impressive, & I am sure she's making new friends there, which is a huge plus.
This lil 92-yr old woman still owns 2 houses, & gets around fairly well.
I have learned to have a whole nuther level of disrespect for some relatives, too, as they advised my son to do things for her for "brownie points," right in front of her! Family in-fighting at times like this is so tawdry, & I refuse to engage. Let 'em get all the brownie points they want, while they trash each other (& me) in hopes of hitting the big time when she passes. Sick, I tell ya.
My son had to return early, cuz he had to work yesterday, so he left the boy with us & split. He got about a mile from here & hit a deer, of course. Air bags deployed. Windshield busted. I haven't been out to look at the damage yet, but it didn't look great when I passed it on the way in last night. I'm glad Jace was with us!
Jace was a real joy on this trip (which was WAY cool, cuz he can be a real problem when he wants to be!), engaging everyone he saw, smiling all the time & giggling & shreaking with glee.
The feast, of course, was awkward, as ppl who normally wouldn't be caught dead in each others' company tried to engage & play catch up. I still could hardly hear, which made things downright humorous at times as I misunderstood them. I did feel like I fit in with the morning's sacred "pill-popping rituals" as I took my few meds for my ears, & the rest of the folks took their multiples of stuff for various ailments...LOL
I also managed to fix some stuff for the elderly woman, in spite of the other family members horning in & trying to outdo me in the good deeds dept for brownie points. Man, that was really disturbingly annoying, in a funny yet sick sit-com kinda way.
The wife's cousin married a musician, & I actually got to talk with him alone for about 3 minutes. He's in a kick-butt band of older guys who play out & make some really good money. I like that guy & wish I could spend a lil more time with him, but things are always so frantic whenever we visit, thanks to certain ppl who will remain nameless (the brownie-pointers). I think maybe one day I will just hop in the car & visit some of them without making plans, to get to be with the ones I like, while avoiding the others. (Of course, if I ever did this, they would be oh so offended that I didn't let them run me around & ruin everything I wanna do.)
Ya gotta love the family politics.
SMILE - it's the safest way to spread your cheeks!