General Music Chat

I created this monster.

Can I ask a dumb question? Is that him on your profile?

yes.

[quote="sanshouheil"]People are creatures of habit.
Don't rush it.
Give him time to adjust to the idea and talk him down.
You sound like you have a plan ... don't blow it all to hell because he is selfish and you maybe a bit impetuous.
The hunter stalks his prey ... then makes the kill.


Hate to repeat myself but ...

Think before you strike .... THINK!!

You can turn this to your advantage... if you are clever.

I'm pretty optimistic about the situation from the way it sounds. He hasn't been "singing" that long, so maybe with some time he will come into his own. I experienced this with a vocalist before. At first he was horribly bland, and then one day at practice it seemed like his vocal style just jumped out of him. I know that's mainly because he wanted to excel. So if this vocalist wants it bad enough, he could very well just open up vocally as he breaks in his voice. Determination is powerful.

It's very tough being in a band with your buddies, especially when you break communication over what's supposed to be fun, first and foremost. But playing with your comrades is the best!