Robin brings up a whole other can of worms. The female perspective and the male perspective on things.
I have a lot of female friends, just friends and they share a lot of stuff with me. I listen cause I made a lot of mistakes about women thru the years, so Ive spent the last 4 years trying to get a handle on what women want out of a man. Im not talking sexual here either.
Women to me and this is just my point of view tend to deal with things in a micro sense, all the little details. The reasoning behind ones actions, put this with the creative artistic and it really gets deep.
Ive got a female friend that is a singer and she and I have gotten to be really close platonic friends. She talks about all the little things that go into her creative process.
Whereas men tend to deal in the macro or bigger picture sense of things.
As a man I listen to music and say it either kicks ass or it doesnt. She on the other hand will pick it apart and say if you did this in the song it would bring more life into it. For me stuff either grabs me or it doesnt, something you might see when I review someones music on here. If it doesnt grab me then I probably wont ever listen to it again and this even includes stuff that Ive written myself. I just feel like Ive been there and done that, time to move on. Whereas a female might keep revisiting the song and try to make adjustments to make it better over time.
Just my 2 cents which isnt worth a whole heck uva a lot, but my listening to females has helped me in my personal relationships with them. Hopefully for the better.
I have a lot of female friends, just friends and they share a lot of stuff with me. I listen cause I made a lot of mistakes about women thru the years, so Ive spent the last 4 years trying to get a handle on what women want out of a man. Im not talking sexual here either.
Women to me and this is just my point of view tend to deal with things in a micro sense, all the little details. The reasoning behind ones actions, put this with the creative artistic and it really gets deep.
Ive got a female friend that is a singer and she and I have gotten to be really close platonic friends. She talks about all the little things that go into her creative process.
Whereas men tend to deal in the macro or bigger picture sense of things.
As a man I listen to music and say it either kicks ass or it doesnt. She on the other hand will pick it apart and say if you did this in the song it would bring more life into it. For me stuff either grabs me or it doesnt, something you might see when I review someones music on here. If it doesnt grab me then I probably wont ever listen to it again and this even includes stuff that Ive written myself. I just feel like Ive been there and done that, time to move on. Whereas a female might keep revisiting the song and try to make adjustments to make it better over time.
Just my 2 cents which isnt worth a whole heck uva a lot, but my listening to females has helped me in my personal relationships with them. Hopefully for the better.
"A winks as good as nod to a blind man"
