So I live in an area of Ontario made up of mainly small town so no big cities are easily accessible. I want to find people with musical talent similar to mine but can't :/ any advice? I'd move but not even sure where to go or anything.
Punt!
You'd probably be surprised how many great players are hiding in the small towns. It will take some work and a little luck for the right situation to happen, but it's not impossible where you are.
This, coming from a person who gave up on trying to form a full-time band 12 years ago. My advice for anyone who can play an instrument and sing is to prepare to go it alone as a soloist and also try to put a band together at the same time. That way, you won't be held hostage by circumstances beyond your control....and sometimes you can have fun interacting with other musicians who don't control your future.