I use Gibson 1960 Classic Reissues and they have some super hot pickups. Most people Ive talked to go to a different pickup with a more mellow taper, but I havent.
I listened to your demos and you go for a very crunchy sound, so rolling off the volume and even rolling off the tone control will tak a lot of bite out of your guitar.
When I play live I ussually keep my bridge pickup volume around 2-5 and my tone control around 7, I do leave the neck pickup pretty much wide open and the tone around 8. I use the neck pickup for a lot of my leads. When I was real young I used to just dime all the controls on everything amp included. I had an old club musician come in and explain it in terms I understood. He said let your equipment breath. You can get a huge tone variation just at your guitar if you will take the time to play with it.
I use Mesa Amps, and I hardly ever set my gains past noon anymore, and I still get a very biting tone, maybe not as crunchy as what I heard in yours. Another are is the mids, on the Mesa's I wind up around 8-10 oclock. I hardly ever get the controls on my amp past noon anymore and it works for me.
Good Luck on your tone quest, its one of the most frustrating things in the world to me. I can have my stuff all set like I like it and the next day it sounds like mud.
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